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Mother-in-law gave the newlyweds the keys to the apartment, and they rushed to rented housing
Whenever possible, parents always try to do good. wedding gift. But sometimes even the best intentions of the older generation lead to misunderstandings and quarrels in the family. Especially if the gift comes with certain conditions.
And today's edition. "Site" The story of a woman whose daughter recently got married. But although the groom’s mother gave the children an expensive gift, the young people soon had to refuse it. What happened and is it possible to understand the young family?
At the wedding, my husband loudly stated that he gave the young an apartment. Everyone was very happy with this decision, including me. Although Maria made a gift only in words, because she refused to reissue anything. I hinted that with the re-registration will succeed, let them live like this, and if they get divorced again, everything happens ..., writes Tatiana.
“Both my Valya and my son-in-law were glad that they would not have to pay more for rent, they began to prepare for the move. But when they arrived at their “own” apartment, Maria also arrived there. And he began to “help” with the settlement.
The first thing svatya began with claims that the apartment needs to be cleaned well, washed everything, and only then bring things. It turned out that she even brought household chemicals with her to wash everything well together with her new daughter-in-law.
Then Mary began to inspect the goods. The bed was immediately rejected, saying that there was simply no room for her in the apartment. But the sofa was strictly forbidden to clean, because he “still very much nothing, a couple of years will definitely last.”
The daughter and son-in-law listened to all this, looked at each other, gave her the keys, collected their belongings again and returned to the rented apartment. Fortunately, the hostess has not yet managed to find anyone in their place, they were able to agree with her on the extension of the lease.
Valya later told me everything and explained that they do not need such gifts. They say that they did not have time to settle in, and the mother-in-law there already owns and decides what to do and how. What happens next? It is better to live in a rented apartment, but no one teaches you how to live. And then they plan to save up and borrow housing.”
As for Mary, she was very offended by the children. She evicted the tenants. At the wedding, I handed the keys to the young people, and now they turn their noses. What am I going to tell people? She gave me an apartment, and will they live on a rented apartment? she tried to pull me to her side of the snuckle.
In addition, Maria insisted that the children’s apartment, so they are obliged to pay rent and utilities. If they don’t want to, let them rent the apartment themselves. I noted that since the children do not live there, and the apartment is decorated on a van, then debts accumulate in her name.
But Maria heard only that the apartment was decorated for her, and she came up with the idea that my daughter and I had conspired to force her to re-register her house. In short, Svatya became very angry and assured that nothing would be rewritten by anyone. That's what she left.
And now I look at it and I think that the children did the right thing that they did not live under such supervision. And how can they rent this apartment if they can not even throw away the old furniture? Worried only who will be the debts then for rent and communal pay, — reflects Tatiana.
It seems that the vatya and the apartment “gifted” only in order to be able to constantly interfere with the apartment. youngster. However, the newly minted husband and wife were sufficiently far-sighted, prudent and independent to make the right choice. It is hoped that Maria will still be able to understand the children and family relations will improve. Debt will be sorted out somehow.
And today's edition. "Site" The story of a woman whose daughter recently got married. But although the groom’s mother gave the children an expensive gift, the young people soon had to refuse it. What happened and is it possible to understand the young family?
At the wedding, my husband loudly stated that he gave the young an apartment. Everyone was very happy with this decision, including me. Although Maria made a gift only in words, because she refused to reissue anything. I hinted that with the re-registration will succeed, let them live like this, and if they get divorced again, everything happens ..., writes Tatiana.
“Both my Valya and my son-in-law were glad that they would not have to pay more for rent, they began to prepare for the move. But when they arrived at their “own” apartment, Maria also arrived there. And he began to “help” with the settlement.
The first thing svatya began with claims that the apartment needs to be cleaned well, washed everything, and only then bring things. It turned out that she even brought household chemicals with her to wash everything well together with her new daughter-in-law.
Then Mary began to inspect the goods. The bed was immediately rejected, saying that there was simply no room for her in the apartment. But the sofa was strictly forbidden to clean, because he “still very much nothing, a couple of years will definitely last.”
The daughter and son-in-law listened to all this, looked at each other, gave her the keys, collected their belongings again and returned to the rented apartment. Fortunately, the hostess has not yet managed to find anyone in their place, they were able to agree with her on the extension of the lease.
Valya later told me everything and explained that they do not need such gifts. They say that they did not have time to settle in, and the mother-in-law there already owns and decides what to do and how. What happens next? It is better to live in a rented apartment, but no one teaches you how to live. And then they plan to save up and borrow housing.”
As for Mary, she was very offended by the children. She evicted the tenants. At the wedding, I handed the keys to the young people, and now they turn their noses. What am I going to tell people? She gave me an apartment, and will they live on a rented apartment? she tried to pull me to her side of the snuckle.
In addition, Maria insisted that the children’s apartment, so they are obliged to pay rent and utilities. If they don’t want to, let them rent the apartment themselves. I noted that since the children do not live there, and the apartment is decorated on a van, then debts accumulate in her name.
But Maria heard only that the apartment was decorated for her, and she came up with the idea that my daughter and I had conspired to force her to re-register her house. In short, Svatya became very angry and assured that nothing would be rewritten by anyone. That's what she left.
And now I look at it and I think that the children did the right thing that they did not live under such supervision. And how can they rent this apartment if they can not even throw away the old furniture? Worried only who will be the debts then for rent and communal pay, — reflects Tatiana.
It seems that the vatya and the apartment “gifted” only in order to be able to constantly interfere with the apartment. youngster. However, the newly minted husband and wife were sufficiently far-sighted, prudent and independent to make the right choice. It is hoped that Maria will still be able to understand the children and family relations will improve. Debt will be sorted out somehow.
