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Husband after 50 completely freaked out, decided to settle with a young woman in an apartment we bought for my daughter
What should I do if my husband is suddenly in love with another woman and he decides to leave the family in his later years? Is it worth trying to keep him? Or just accept everything as it is and trust the dictates of fate?
This problem had to face 52-year-old Tamara Konstantinovna from Ilyichevsk. Can you help us answer all these questions for our heroine?
Until recently, I thought I was really lucky. I grew up a beautiful daughter, married experience was close to 20 years. My husband was always attentive and caring. Life is set, the goals are outlined, in general, everything is like people.
My husband and I have been saving our daughter for an apartment all our lives. Although it was not necessary to suffer, but there was no special opportunity to pamper yourself.
If you went on vacation, then to the dacha. If they needed new products, they bought everything in the market. And now, after almost 2 decades of hard work and economy, the dream came true - the keys to the cherished apartment were in our hands.
And everything would be great if it weren't for one thing. After 50, the venerable went completely crazy - decided to settle with a young woman in an apartment that we bought for our daughter. You see, he had a sudden feeling.
"I fell in love," he says, "like a boy." “Sorry, darling, I can’t help it. I tried to pull myself together, I didn't want to ruin my family. But I don't want to fool myself or you anymore. I thank you for all these years, but now I love another. That's why we said goodbye.
I would not grieve too much, my life is noble hardened, I am ready for anything at my age. But the fact that my husband decided to bring a new passion to an apartment that was bought for my daughter just knocked the ground out from under my feet.
How can you take this and in one fell swoop all over, and even take the apartment of your daughter at the same time? Where's your conscience? Is his personal happiness more precious to him than his own daughter?
What do I do now? I threw all my youth to the wind for this apartment. I worked without sleeping at night... And for what?
What do you think about this whole situation? What advice would you like to give our storyteller? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments!
This problem had to face 52-year-old Tamara Konstantinovna from Ilyichevsk. Can you help us answer all these questions for our heroine?
Until recently, I thought I was really lucky. I grew up a beautiful daughter, married experience was close to 20 years. My husband was always attentive and caring. Life is set, the goals are outlined, in general, everything is like people.
My husband and I have been saving our daughter for an apartment all our lives. Although it was not necessary to suffer, but there was no special opportunity to pamper yourself.
If you went on vacation, then to the dacha. If they needed new products, they bought everything in the market. And now, after almost 2 decades of hard work and economy, the dream came true - the keys to the cherished apartment were in our hands.
And everything would be great if it weren't for one thing. After 50, the venerable went completely crazy - decided to settle with a young woman in an apartment that we bought for our daughter. You see, he had a sudden feeling.
"I fell in love," he says, "like a boy." “Sorry, darling, I can’t help it. I tried to pull myself together, I didn't want to ruin my family. But I don't want to fool myself or you anymore. I thank you for all these years, but now I love another. That's why we said goodbye.
I would not grieve too much, my life is noble hardened, I am ready for anything at my age. But the fact that my husband decided to bring a new passion to an apartment that was bought for my daughter just knocked the ground out from under my feet.
How can you take this and in one fell swoop all over, and even take the apartment of your daughter at the same time? Where's your conscience? Is his personal happiness more precious to him than his own daughter?
What do I do now? I threw all my youth to the wind for this apartment. I worked without sleeping at night... And for what?
What do you think about this whole situation? What advice would you like to give our storyteller? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments!
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