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If you could outplay life, you wouldn’t get married.
Almost all girls from childhood dream of a chic wedding, a cozy house, a caring strong husband and a couple of noisy kids. However, when their dreams finally come true, many of them realize that this is not what they needed.
This is exactly what happened to the heroine of our current history, 65-year-old Valentina Vyacheslavovna.
So at what point does married life cease to seem like a fairy tale, and why do so many married ladies desperately miss their freedom? Let's work it out together!
At first, marriage seems to you like something absolutely incredible. Something airy and sublime... Especially if you're young and decent. Until the veil of secrecy is removed, marriage remains a pink girl’s dream. And this dream at all costs I want to quickly realize. Marriage has so many pleasant surprises.
But the bitter right is that things are really different.
Oh no, the fact that you were spent and life with your husband will not bring you that enthusiastic bliss, about which you dreamed so much, you will not immediately understand. Day by day, slowly you will notice the pink veil falling from your eyes. One day you will discover the true meaning of marriage.
When awareness comes, former hobbies will replace home care: cooking, cleaning, washing and other “women’s joys”. Promotion in your favorite field of activity will also have to be postponed for later. The first thing you need to do is take care of your son and, of course, your husband. Feed, caress, praise and lay bayinki (the scheme is the same as for a child, as for a spouse).
And then one day you suddenly wonder, "What am I doing here?" How did my life turn into a grievous curtain of everyday life? Where's my promised happy ending?
Perhaps this will happen in one of the hot July days, when the husband once again exchanges a joint vacation for “getting together with men.” Or on a rainy October evening, when your loved one will sleep soundly, while you are alone with a cold child and can not close your eyes with excitement. Or on the happiest day of the year, when your husband will show you sincere interest and attention, as in the beginning of your story.
It doesn't matter when those thoughts come up. Just be ready to accept them and honestly answer all the questions you ask yourself.
If I had a second life, I would never spend it on marriage. It is too late to change anything now. And young girls should think about what they want from this life, and more consciously approach the question of marriage.
Personally, it seems to me that marriage should not be reduced to domestic servitude. A happy marriage is possible. However, the fact that family relationships need to spend a lot of energy and energy, I will not argue. This is true, and one should approach them consciously, as Valentina Vyacheslavovna said.
What do you think about that?
This is exactly what happened to the heroine of our current history, 65-year-old Valentina Vyacheslavovna.
So at what point does married life cease to seem like a fairy tale, and why do so many married ladies desperately miss their freedom? Let's work it out together!
At first, marriage seems to you like something absolutely incredible. Something airy and sublime... Especially if you're young and decent. Until the veil of secrecy is removed, marriage remains a pink girl’s dream. And this dream at all costs I want to quickly realize. Marriage has so many pleasant surprises.
But the bitter right is that things are really different.
Oh no, the fact that you were spent and life with your husband will not bring you that enthusiastic bliss, about which you dreamed so much, you will not immediately understand. Day by day, slowly you will notice the pink veil falling from your eyes. One day you will discover the true meaning of marriage.
When awareness comes, former hobbies will replace home care: cooking, cleaning, washing and other “women’s joys”. Promotion in your favorite field of activity will also have to be postponed for later. The first thing you need to do is take care of your son and, of course, your husband. Feed, caress, praise and lay bayinki (the scheme is the same as for a child, as for a spouse).
And then one day you suddenly wonder, "What am I doing here?" How did my life turn into a grievous curtain of everyday life? Where's my promised happy ending?
Perhaps this will happen in one of the hot July days, when the husband once again exchanges a joint vacation for “getting together with men.” Or on a rainy October evening, when your loved one will sleep soundly, while you are alone with a cold child and can not close your eyes with excitement. Or on the happiest day of the year, when your husband will show you sincere interest and attention, as in the beginning of your story.
It doesn't matter when those thoughts come up. Just be ready to accept them and honestly answer all the questions you ask yourself.
If I had a second life, I would never spend it on marriage. It is too late to change anything now. And young girls should think about what they want from this life, and more consciously approach the question of marriage.
Personally, it seems to me that marriage should not be reduced to domestic servitude. A happy marriage is possible. However, the fact that family relationships need to spend a lot of energy and energy, I will not argue. This is true, and one should approach them consciously, as Valentina Vyacheslavovna said.
What do you think about that?
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