Faith accustomed her husband to the fact that without her he does not even warm up food

In men, a good wife is equated with a servant. Cooked, heated, served - a good wife. Didn't show that the borscht pan in the fridge was a bad wife. A caring wife always tries to please her beloved man. But sometimes husbands take this care for granted and sit on their heads.



Caring wife: This week we met a friend in the yard. Suddenly Vera's phone rang and she quickly picked up the baby from the sandbox and ran home. And she ran to make her husband coffee and warm cheesecakes, which she cooked while her husband slept. Can't he put the food on his plate already ready? She has been friends with Vera since university times and lives next door in the same yard.



“Faith has always been a calm girl, her parents have conservative views, and her daughter raised. Vera was always looking for a man who would be behind a stone wall. But her husband is a narcissistic and lazy man, as it should be under patriarchal principles. One good thing: Dima earns well, this covers her duty to be a breadwinner in the family. Otherwise, he is just arrogant and narcissistic.



And Vera is raising her son, although he is already 6 years old, she is not going to work. Faith is used to relying on her husband for everything. This is not strange, because my friend got married right after graduation. Before that, she was in the care of her parents. That's why everything is on Vera. She cooks three times a day different delicacies to her husband, cleans, raises her son. The husband does not help Vera around the house with words at all. He doesn’t even know where his clean clothes lie or how to heat his food from the fridge.



Strangely, Vera has several friends in a similar situation. They also live at the expense of their husbands and take care of the house and children. But none of the girlfriends get up early to help her husband get ready for work, feed him and cook him lunch with her. Can't he make himself an egg or a sandwich in the morning?



The concept of “normal family” each couple has its own. In the case of Vera, she is very lucky that her worldview coincides with that of her husband. She is happy and does what she likes, takes care of her man, and he provides for the family. When people are happy with that, it’s great. But if Vera suppressed her ambitions and life interfered with manifesting herself, she would be unhappy.



Not all women want to build a career and be independent. It all depends on how we were raised. We learn many habits from our parents. They learn to build a family, introduce the traditions of parents in their own family. But without understanding and support, the family can collapse. Therefore, each spouse should respect each other and care about the happiness of their loved one, even in small things.