The priest taught how to lure a teenager to church if he resists and shouts

Children in the temple do not always behave properly. This is understandable, because children do not fully understand what adults want from them. Children can make noise, play, cry. There are times when a child refuses to go to the temple. What is the right thing to do in this case? The priests advise how to fix the situation.



© Freepik Children in the Temple Priests recommend teach children to visit the temple Since infancy. Many believers bring their favorite children for Communion, but children do not yet fully understand the meaning of people’s stay in the church. Children want to play, indulge, rage, scream. Anyway, anything, But do not listen to sermons and prayers.. Moreover, too noisy children can interfere with other visitors to the temple.



If a child has expressed a desire to go with someone from adults to the temple, then you need to explain in detail how to behave. Of course, without any reproach or abuse. Seniors should understand that if they are leading a child to the service, You have to be patient. They are not only responsible for themselves but also for their children.

The priests advise to occupy the children in the temple so that the service does not turn into something boring and incomprehensible for them. For example, in the church shop you can find Many books for children on religious topics. Books contain not only instructive stories, but also colorful pictures that children will definitely like.

Older children can be assigned some small work. For example, put out a burning candle and throw it in a special urn. Maybe. Discuss an icon with a childThe Holy, Holy or Biblical History is depicted there. This will benefit not only children, but also adults will be able to refresh the memory.



Some parents and older people may try to influence the child with the help of force, ultimatums, their own authority. Their children do not want to go to the temple, and they feel they have the right to do so. They may not fully understand the meaning of the service. Or Parents are forced to go to church under pressure. Which, admittedly, is completely wrong.

The priests assume that much depends on the parental example. If the child sees that My father came to the temple and prayed.The child will be inspired by the example of a loved one. If the parents brought the children to the temple simply because they needed to, the outcome is obvious. Their child can make noise, hysteria, disturb the peace of other parishioners.

But most importantly, you should never turn a child’s life into unbearable torment if he does not want to visit the temple. It is not necessary because of this to forbid the child to use the computer, watch TV or walk with friends. This will only worsen the situation and can undermine the child’s trust in such a parent. No doubt, It is worth paying attention to the life of your child.But overdoing the stick, of course, is not recommended.



The priests believe that if a teenager categorically refuses to go to church, then he should not be forced. Children in the temple must be of their own free will. It is better to avoid unnecessary conflicts.At this age, children are formed as individuals. They want to be independent. Don't put pressure on your child.



© Freepik Priests advise parents to pay more attention to personal visits to the temple. Parents can consult with the confessor, which prayers are better for them to read or to which saint to appeal to send their child of wisdom and guide them on the right path of life. It's It will help families find peace of mind. and approaching your child.



As you can see, all spiritual leaders agree that a child should visit the House of God without any compulsion. Children in the temple can stay as long as they are due to age. But most importantly, parents should Have sincere love and care in your heart to his own blood. And then in the soul of everyone settles the true grace given to good people from above.

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