The truth is, do not be born beautiful, but be born happy. How do we measure happiness? That's right, money. There is a widespread belief among the people that
rich - is to be happy a priori. Yeah, I don't think so. I don’t need that insinuation, like, oh, I’d be in their shoes! They're in trouble!
This story is very revealing from the point of view of “not everything is so clear”. So many people, so many opinions. No matter what, man is a social being. And the heroine of our story was literally a hostage. Editorial
"Site" I want to think about how to be in such a situation.
Not so long ago I was such a girl-chorus. Nothing particularly burdened: no money, no bright thoughts about the future. I just graduated from college and thought about where to get settled. Thoughts about the wedding, and especially about the child, until she tormented herself, surrendering to the will of providence.
And it wasn't long in coming! It was three years ago — it was the same warm summer time, my girlfriend and I were walking along the waterfront, and suddenly he appeared. See?
commonerHe invited us to a cafe, bought us some ice cream, and then took us home. Behaved very decently, without rudeness, not brazen. I shared my phone number with him.
A few days later he called and a period of beautiful courtship began. There was everything: flowers, romantic dinners, and short trips. Six months later he proposed to me and gave me a diamond ring. Can a simple girl from a poor family resist such pressure?
Even during the courtship of my future husband, I realized that he was not a poor man. He rode me on horses, we went on a yacht, lived in luxurious rooms of expensive hotels. I went abroad for the first time and learned how to drive. Needless to say, the mischievous girl was afraid to scare away her happiness?
You should have seen the eyes of the relatives who came to the wedding. My husband told me to call everyone, let no one be offended that he was not called. It goes without saying that he took all the expenses, even though my parents tried to participate. The husband was adamant: he hired stewards and organized everything himself. How beautiful it was!
Even after the wedding, I still couldn’t believe this had happened to me. There was a girl who, out of all her wealth, had only big blue eyes and a slender back, and all of a sudden there was this social elevator that lifted me high up into the sky. I felt like I was flying over the clouds. I was happy early.
Once I became an official wife, my husband completely switched to his worries. His family is very rich, not that they don't accept me, but they don't accept me very much. Against marriage with me was not, but, I understand that not very happy with the choice of their offspring. He really has a lot to worry about. My husband stopped paying as much attention to me as he did before.
He also asked me not to meet my friends without him, but he doesn’t have time for that. In the morning he goes on business, comes back quite late and wants to rest. I do housework, cook and keep myself in shape all the time. He wants me to always be well-groomed and beautiful.
All I have to do is go out with my parents and sometimes have coffee with that girlfriend in the afternoon. Everything else the husband does not encourage. Two and a half years later, I feel completely alone. Like a bird in a golden cage. My rich and
beautiful It became a routine.
My husband doesn’t seem to understand me at all. I feel like I'm fading in the house because I'm quite active in life. We discussed it, my husband tries to do me something nice, gives me expensive gifts, but to go to the restaurant, as before, does not find time. He says he's got more business, and he can't give it to anyone. He looks at me with hope and I am afraid.
Maybe the girl does not say something, but in general you can understand her cry of the soul. Not so long ago she had an inconspicuous, but quite
carefreeAnd now she finds herself in a completely different environment, where, in fact, she is left to herself. Of all communication, only the husband. However, it is very close to someone. What do you think?
Living rich It doesn't mean living happily. They say, “Don’t wear someone else’s shoes, you haven’t walked a mile in them.” Read our article on what you need to do to attract money into the house and not think about it anymore. Thank you for staying with us!