A business man on why women shouldn't load themselves with work

Whether a woman should work or not can be debated for a long time. In today’s world, we can decide how to live our lives. Whether building a career or raising children, some even manage to successfully combine these two difficult occupations. Modern working women do not need to be provided. They do a great job of serving as a provider in the family.



When a woman marries and gives birth to a child, she is physically unable to work for some time. And then the question arises: should she stay after childbirth and raise her child at home or should she go to work to be on an equal footing with her husband? Most men believe that A woman should sit with the child and take care of the house..



In this situation, it is impossible to say how to behave properly a woman. Each family has different relationships and views on what family happiness looks like. Some mothers take care of children and comfort in the house, while their husbands provide for the family. Others are forced to work on an equal footing with their spouse, because not everyone, unfortunately, gets a job in high-paying positions. Some women simply enjoy self-development and lose the ability and time to make soup at home instead of defending scientific research at an international conference.



I am glad that society is changing, its perception is changing. But still there are those who will condemn a working mother who does not pay attention to the child, saying, and what was the reason for giving birth? A woman has a choice, she has the right to decide whether to combine work with everyday life or to devote all her attention to one thing.



The writer Mikhail Glinka - a relative of the composer Glinka and a representative of the famous noble family wrote a documentary story "Horizontal landscape". In his work, the writer writes a lot about the sea and discusses life. Once the hero of the story meets the captain of the ship, and he says about his wife: “She is an architect, for 8 years engaged exclusively in the upbringing of a child. The son between the snow games plays Vivaldi, and the housewife with a diploma of architect.



Glinka goes on to say that he likes educated women who devote their time to home and family: They do much more good at home. I prefer home education, not nursery and kindergartens, says the author.



Mikhail Glinka says that not every child can play Vivaldi and not everyone needs it. But, in his opinion, every child needs a sense of the uniqueness of parents, family and home: “I do not believe that a sense of homeland can be found in the nursery, among nurses and cooks who come to work in the morning with empty, and leave in the evening with full bags. Nor does it grow among nurses who give one hundred and twenty shots a day in one hundred and twenty butts. There are so many excellent people among the nurses! They just don't have time. One child should be preferred to another. Mother, father, sisters, brothers, grandmother – that’s what it takes to wake up in a little man all the forces of his dormant soul.



There is something to think about, because children deprived of the attention of their parents grow angry and ungrateful. Although it is for the benefit of their children that parents work tirelessly. And then it turns out they needed attention. But the woman should not be forgotten. Can you tell someone what to do?



Along with those who condemn working women, there are many who condemn a housewife who does not develop at all. She spends her time at home and indulges the whims of her husband, instead of developing. You cannot rely on a man and think that you will live with him all your life, alas. And if it happens that your paths diverge, and then a woman to provide for her child, will have to go to work and earn money with her knowledge.