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What unpleasant discoveries can instantly destroy a young family
Today, the institution of the family is experiencing not the best times. Young people easily decide to marry, but often just as easily and divorce. Family and household For many, they are too big a challenge, before which even the warmest feelings for a partner pale.
Of course, there are many reasons for divorce, but often they come down to the fact that a man and a woman simply did not know each other well before marriage. As a result, a sudden “enlightenment” makes it clear to a person: he made a mistake with the choice.
Family and life "Ana and I met at the birthday of a mutual friend. I noticed a beautiful and well-groomed girl right away. Puffy lips, luxurious eyelashes, long hair - all with her. Once we immediately began to spin, — says Sergey.
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“She was a student, went to college, lived with her mother three blocks away from me. We met at my place, but for the night Anya never stayed. She said her mother would not approve.”
“After three months I also met my mother. A nice woman, the house is clean and cozy, smells like fresh cakes. The thought flashed: "And how does my Anya manage to knead his three-centimeter claws and knead the dough and bring order?" But I did not ask.
In the end, I decided that the beautiful, decent and homely Anya is the girl who will be my best wife. We got married soon after, and then my young wife moved in with my modest one-woman. Everything seems wonderful. Live and rejoice.”
“I immersed myself in the work. I love my job and I love working a lot. I dreamed that I would feed my family, and Anya would create comfort at home. But on the third day after the wedding, I began to doubt.
A young family’s daily routine: “I come home – no one meets.” I walked into the kitchen - no soup, no borscht. On the table only the remains of ordered pizza, next to crumbs and husks from seeds. The wife sits with her foot on her foot, and diligently saws her claws.”
I said, “Sunshine, what’s for dinner?” The answer is, “I had dinner, and you eat pizza, I left you.” What a mess! I decided to keep quiet, I thought that I had just got married, everything will get better.
“But a week later everything remained the same. I cooked dinner for myself in the evening. Anya didn't cook borscht, she didn't treat me to fresh pies. She didn’t even find time to dust or make her bed. My patience began to run out, and I asked directly what she did every day after college.”
"How is that what? In the morning I have school, after lectures, me and the girls sit in a cafe, then I, tired, come home. Turning on the computer, checking messages. You know how much there is! Everyone needs to answer, talk, look at fresh photos, like. To put yourself in order to be beautiful, explained his wife.
The first serious quarrel “I then freaked out, slammed the door and went to sleep with a friend.” I decided to let Anya think about her behavior. When he returned the next day, he could not believe his own eyes.
“Everywhere is clean, the apartment is clean, dinner is cooked. I rejoiced like a child. Hug his wife. I told her, "Sunshine, I'm sorry!" What a clever man you are: you cleaned up and cooked.
"What do I have to do with this? It was my mom who came. I'm not going to wash the floors with my own hands. She promised to come help every week, she looked at me strangely.
“I don’t know what came over me, but I packed her so far few things around the apartment, put her in a suitcase and took her to the car.” Then he returned, took his wife out of the apartment and took her back to his mother-in-law.”
“I can be judged. You could say you're wrong. But with my wife, I was going to spend my whole life raising children. Does her mom have to deal with that, too? It took us two weeks to get divorced. I'm afraid to think about marriage. Suddenly it will be the same, concluded Sergey.
It is almost impossible to re-educate an adult. Therefore, to hope that over time everything will be different is hardly worth it. Therefore, before you tie the knot, you need to make sure that in everyday life with a partner there is full compatibility.
Of course, there are many reasons for divorce, but often they come down to the fact that a man and a woman simply did not know each other well before marriage. As a result, a sudden “enlightenment” makes it clear to a person: he made a mistake with the choice.
Family and life "Ana and I met at the birthday of a mutual friend. I noticed a beautiful and well-groomed girl right away. Puffy lips, luxurious eyelashes, long hair - all with her. Once we immediately began to spin, — says Sergey.
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“She was a student, went to college, lived with her mother three blocks away from me. We met at my place, but for the night Anya never stayed. She said her mother would not approve.”
“After three months I also met my mother. A nice woman, the house is clean and cozy, smells like fresh cakes. The thought flashed: "And how does my Anya manage to knead his three-centimeter claws and knead the dough and bring order?" But I did not ask.
In the end, I decided that the beautiful, decent and homely Anya is the girl who will be my best wife. We got married soon after, and then my young wife moved in with my modest one-woman. Everything seems wonderful. Live and rejoice.”
“I immersed myself in the work. I love my job and I love working a lot. I dreamed that I would feed my family, and Anya would create comfort at home. But on the third day after the wedding, I began to doubt.
A young family’s daily routine: “I come home – no one meets.” I walked into the kitchen - no soup, no borscht. On the table only the remains of ordered pizza, next to crumbs and husks from seeds. The wife sits with her foot on her foot, and diligently saws her claws.”
I said, “Sunshine, what’s for dinner?” The answer is, “I had dinner, and you eat pizza, I left you.” What a mess! I decided to keep quiet, I thought that I had just got married, everything will get better.
“But a week later everything remained the same. I cooked dinner for myself in the evening. Anya didn't cook borscht, she didn't treat me to fresh pies. She didn’t even find time to dust or make her bed. My patience began to run out, and I asked directly what she did every day after college.”
"How is that what? In the morning I have school, after lectures, me and the girls sit in a cafe, then I, tired, come home. Turning on the computer, checking messages. You know how much there is! Everyone needs to answer, talk, look at fresh photos, like. To put yourself in order to be beautiful, explained his wife.
The first serious quarrel “I then freaked out, slammed the door and went to sleep with a friend.” I decided to let Anya think about her behavior. When he returned the next day, he could not believe his own eyes.
“Everywhere is clean, the apartment is clean, dinner is cooked. I rejoiced like a child. Hug his wife. I told her, "Sunshine, I'm sorry!" What a clever man you are: you cleaned up and cooked.
"What do I have to do with this? It was my mom who came. I'm not going to wash the floors with my own hands. She promised to come help every week, she looked at me strangely.
“I don’t know what came over me, but I packed her so far few things around the apartment, put her in a suitcase and took her to the car.” Then he returned, took his wife out of the apartment and took her back to his mother-in-law.”
“I can be judged. You could say you're wrong. But with my wife, I was going to spend my whole life raising children. Does her mom have to deal with that, too? It took us two weeks to get divorced. I'm afraid to think about marriage. Suddenly it will be the same, concluded Sergey.
It is almost impossible to re-educate an adult. Therefore, to hope that over time everything will be different is hardly worth it. Therefore, before you tie the knot, you need to make sure that in everyday life with a partner there is full compatibility.
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