Why You Should Think Twice Before Talking About Yourself

Is it always good when your rich wife doesn’t ask you for anything? There are various life situations that prove that people often just play their role well, being in fact not what they seem.

This story was told to me by a friend of Tanya, with whom I have not spoken for a long time. Being far from family troubles, I do not like to get involved in the relations of my relatives. The story was told to me almost under duress. And although I wasn't particularly interested at first, in the tenth minute of the story, I realized that she deserved attention and could teach me something. Perhaps you will take something by reading it.



A friend's brother never gets lucky with women. He always comes across ladies who disappoint him, and, to put it simply, do not meet his high standards. One isn't smart enough, the other doesn't want anything serious, the third married him to get all the money.



I want to step back a bit and say that the endless search for a partner should not be made the main goal of life. If we get the wrong people, maybe it's us. Our attitude towards ourselves and life in general shapes our needs and standards. Insecure people believe that anyone will suit them, and, as a result, choose completely unsuitable partners for them. This, of course, is followed by disappointment and pain.



"The Perfect Woman." Back to our unhappy fiancé. The friend’s brother was always quite an open guy and gladly told his beloved about his failures. Rumors spread quickly, and recently a friend learned that his brother found “the perfect and the only one he had been looking for all his life.” Being interested in the fate of her own man, Tanya hastened to find out what so hooked Alla, namely, that was the name of the “ideal woman” of her brother.



Everything was quite simple: Alla did not need anything and did not require any financial investments from her man. Moreover, it demonstrated its financial independence. Of course, the man was fascinated by such an unusual attitude. He sincerely believed that after so many mercantile ladies found honest and hardworking.



Allochka turned out to be a master of manicure, which more than once put my hands in order. Where did she get the money? Over time, it turned out that they appeared due to the same commercialism. Alla simply “covered” the cavaliers with her method. Oli's brother was her next victim. And a victim?



Is it possible to judge a woman who just wants to live well? Is it possible to judge a man who has made too high demands? Probably, every reader will find in this story his protagonist and antagonist.