What the spouse justifies his trips “left” and how to understand it Bashny.Net

The cold in a relationship does not appear immediately, and for one reason alone it cannot suddenly appear. In most cases, this is due to many different factors, The effects of which gradually accumulate. Cold relationships, of course, do not please anyone who is in them.

Usually this happens: a woman reduces the level of intimacy in a relationship to a certain threshold, which does not satisfy a man. A man, not getting the minimum he needs in his “legal” relationship, begins to look for him “outside the law”. Then begins an endless series of vicissitudes of life, which usually leads to separation or at least suffering of the two parties.



To understand and resolve the situation, it must be considered from two sides. A one-sided view of such things will only engender more misunderstanding It certainly won't help. From a man’s point of view, women simply begin to ignore them for no apparent reason. But from the point of view of women, There could be a lot of reasons.



Why did your lover suddenly stop supporting your romantic bedtime every night? Probably not too experienced man will immediately say something like: “I stopped loving!” You can argue with this, because the reasons are often quite different. The most common: lack of attention, a feeling of depreciation, insecurity in yourself and your appearance, general fatigue and exhaustion.



Burnout at work You can also put it on the list. In addition, the perception of intimacy in each person his own. In a man’s priority list, marital debt may be slightly higher than that of his charming wife. There's nothing wrong with that. It is important to remember that a tired woman He'll want to fall asleep.A tired man can delay sleep a little for the sake of that.



If the failure is repeated day after day, the source of the problem may be different. For example, lack of attention. At the beginning of a relationship passion It may be enough for daily bouts of passion, but over time you will have to warm up the fire a little on your own. Attention, change of scenery, frequent visits, new common interests.



Components of love and desire Not the last role is played by appearance. We can fool ourselves endlessly with things like, “If you really love, you should/should love anything or anything.” That's not true. Love is love. combining many elements, it is complex. It is attachment, habit, admiration for the mental and mental characteristics of the partner. It is also a feeling of gratitude in response to your feelings. Appearance is important, too. Many frankly score on this parameter, believing that “and so will go.”

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If you are not ready to maintain all these components at the level, think about, and are you ready in principle for a serious relationship? There is nothing wrong with the answer being no. Stable serious relationships with the chain of “marriage, children, home, love to the grave” are one of the social constructs imposed on us from early childhood by media, films and relatives who have lived this way themselves and now want to be not the only victims of the system.

Do you thank your other half enough? Is there admiration in your relationship? If you have a greasy brush in both, why are you surprised that your wife has ceased to be attracted to you in an intimate way?