Why on aunts with a ridiculous appearance keeps the world

It is no secret that many of the fair sex at least sometimes thought about how to look feminine. Especially when you are over 40 or 50. There is nothing strange about this, people are social creatures and they like to look good in the eyes of others.



Cosmetics companies are doing great, even in the face of a global pandemic, because women want to feel beautiful and well-groomed. It doesn’t matter that they spend most of their time at home. Beautiful skin and well-groomed appearance are pleasant in themselves.

But femininity is not only in appearance. Habits, character, way of thinking and even some small habits create the image of a “real lady”. That’s why fashion magazines always recommend keeping abreast of current trends, regardless of age.



There are situations when young people meet and, over time, begin to live together. And if in most cases it happens that the guy tries to develop himself, look for a better robot and achieve a higher position, then other changes sometimes occur with the female side.

As it all begins, she begins to build life. Doing the home routine. Cooking, cleaning, shopping. None of this works for her. feminineness. Of course, sometimes you want to go out to people, go to a show or a movie. However, due to constant household chores, it is not possible to finally tune in to this wave.



And in the future, everything becomes even more difficult: a wedding is like a beautiful but quick spark; a short rest - and again a routine. Again, the appearance of children, constant lack of sleep, fatigue, terrible mood. As a result, a light, airy woman in the past can turn into an obnoxious grumpy female who always has everything wrong.

Oh, yeah. Due to the constantly downtrodden regime, lack of sleep and rest, a fatty diet (after all, you need to feed the head of the family and children, you can forget about salads), it is possible that excess weight will appear. Old dresses and suits will become small, which is another cause for stress. Our editors have never met a girl who would be happy to increase the size on the trouser tag.



And bang! From a gentle, beautiful, intelligent girl, you get a tired, always dissatisfied aunt who has only thoughts about discounts in the local supermarket and waiting for evening talk shows on TV. Sad.

So what can we do if the prospects are not too bright? "Site" I advise you to take care of yourself first. Yes, women's life is mostly about family. So now, forget about personal time and space?

Our advice. Children. If the mother is happy, the children are happy. While they are small, their mood and life are directly related to maternal habits. No tasty pancake with meat gravy or cutlets will make them happy. No smartphone will make them feel good for a week. It's a thing of the past.

Don't spend all your money on the whims of children. Neither my son nor my daughter know how hard the money is. Therefore, they will demand more and more. Their appetites are restless. On the other hand, now peers do not laugh if someone does not have the latest model of a tablet or smartphone. Overall, the kids are kinder than they were 20 years ago. You remember.



It's the same story about food. Healthy food in smaller quantities is much healthier than a whole pan of dumplings or goulash. Her stomach is simpler and easier. The same rule applies to and husband. The most fat man, a lover of foam drink, who has long been reconciled with his weight, and he secretly dreams of losing weight. Everyone dreams of a thin, fragile wife.

For the time saved, you can enroll in some sports section. Or you can be creative if you have a passion for it. And no, so the development channels on the Internet are full. You can even learn to dance at home. This has already been verified by more than one housewife.

Changing the wardrobe will only be good. And the husband will be more often invited to the rendezvous: no wonder, men like to be in the company of a beautiful lady. But do not forget about personal development. A couple of good books will positively affect the ability to maintain a conversation and awaken in your man sometimes weakened feelings.



But the hardest part is getting started. Two very powerful enemies will hinder you: your own fear and laziness. Not every person can overcome them. I want to sleep a little longer and eat sweeter. I don't want to change anything. But just remember your young years. When there was enough energy for school, work, and also for dates. Those were wonderful times.

Good luck! So, to return them, you need to try to live in the same rhythm. Or at least aim for it. The results will not take long to wait, with each new day your femininity and ease will come back to you in a bit. Step by step you will reach your dream. We wish you the best of luck in your endeavors.

Of course, someone will say that the whole country is based on aunts whose husband and children are fed and dressed. You don't need more than that. On the one hand, it is. But let’s keep up with some higher standards than we did 20-30 years ago. We will strive for a better quality of life. It's progress.