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What is femininity ... the eyes of men
What women mean by femininity and men - is a big difference. Where big difference - there is a parody of the original and eternal misunderstanding
. And because about the holy of holies - Feminine - I speak with a reservation for our male point of view
. In this story, I will call you on you - that dialogue was natural and confidence, like old friends, ready to listen to a different version of the familiar tunes
. You used to think Feminine tenderness, gentleness, sensitivity, fluidity of movement, flexibility, flirting, flirt, confidence and the ability to dissolve in a man.
Unconditional truth - all this femininity ...
Every man is looking at the one who builds a relationship with these qualities.
But why?
Let me, for a start, I give my definition of femininity.
Femininity - the ability to inspire others to action, without creating any movement, leave alone
. To understand this definition, see the following picture:
She sits at a table in a cafe. He sips coffee. Not in a hurry. At the opposite wall he was sitting. He looks at her, and we understand that he wants to meet.
He hesitates. Time is running. She gets up and walks away.
Sorry ...
Let's change the picture:
It is there in the cafe. It is also opposite.
He gets up and resolutely suited to her table. That had to change, that it inspired the motion?
It should include some kind of magnet, forcing him to get up and go.
What is this magnet? Does she know about him? if she knows how to use it?
Good questions.
We call this magnet femininity. It is, of course, knows about it. But can not always use. Magnet switched itself - under certain conditions
. Here we are with you and come smoothly to the fact that all the same comprises femininity and inspires others to deeds.
We say directly: the other - a man and a courageous woman for feminine women themselves staying alone, delegate other feats
. I was a little delayed the moment when you know that launches your femininity. Perhaps you will be shocked. It's so unlike anything you've heard before. It is not associated with sexuality, nor deceit, neither that alludes to any manifestation of physicality.
Femininity is activated when there is a SPIRITUAL PARTNERSHIP. In other words, when the spirit of a woman intuitively feels the presence of the Spirit, whose purpose it is ready to support, a woman's body is humbled and becomes a charming and attractive softness, creating a desire to create in its space.
Two Spirit, disembodied, absolutely opposite in sign, in quality, in energy, but with a common goal, transforming the body, which are, and lead them in motion. The man's body becomes hard and striving like a spear. Your body becomes soft and enlistment if the target.
The bodies are sexy and inviting each other to reunite in a single Spirit, that they may serve as life itself. To them through life could manifest itself in the universe.
Your Spirit makes you feminine at the time of the meeting with the Spirit, the aim of which is interesting to your Spirit. It always happens, regardless of the gender of the person, inside of which the Spirit operates, the aim of which are interested in your Spirit. You can be very feminine with a woman and wonder to themselves, their feelings, their softness and sexuality. But now you know the reason for this sudden transformation. This woman - medium Objectives of your Spirit
. And your intuition does not deceive you. Just your mind is no clue about the purpose of your Spirit. The history of mankind shows that intuition is more important Uma.
Intuition leads to the future, creating new and mind wanders through the maze of the past in search of lost self-worth.
Intuition and inspiration - the two most important attribute of your Feminine
. Intuition allows you to listen to the whisperings of your Spirit, indicative of the presence next to you someone who will take care of you while you are serving life together.
When the bell Intuition very gently will signal you about the presence of the Spirit in the desired body of a man, will come the turn of Inspiration.
You ever seen a funnel in the water? Women's Inspiration is very similar to her. No wonder many women are taught to practice spin funnel into the uterus.
Imagine a wide river. It's you. Let yourself go with its flow. Be fluid and do not stop. Now I feel that the stone fell in love with you-so Intuition gave you a sign that the next closest Spirit. What will the water with a stone? Immersing himself in it, it will whirl around the vortex, and on the surface will begin to disperse waves. Water can not resist, because it is fluid and flexible. Its wavelength is your inspiration.
These soft and elastic waves of other bears to their goal. Do not forget that you - not just a wave, you - the whole river. And while you let others be held in your environment, in your area, they can swim. You give them to live in themselves, they swim together with you to your overall Objectives.
But you're not making a movement - you are a river that allows itself to simply flow through the channel. You do not do work, though are moving, and even drives the rotor standing in your way of dams.
You're good for life just because it does not oppose to the space; that agrees with relief; that takes everything that occurs in your way.
And life settles in you. You become a river, full of life. So you serve it.
Your service life is expressed in two ways: through your femininity and motherhood through your
. Femininity is expressed, as I said, through intuition and inspiration, and always seeks to connect with the Spirit of the Creator in the other person (or group of people).
Once the connection is, your life becomes a ministry of motherhood: you begin to bear the idea of the Spirit, to materialize it as a child in her womb and continue to grow your project, as a son or daughter
. Sooner or later the child will need to let go into adulthood, and it means that you will have to turn their femininity again. It is now, after the Motherhood, Femininity becomes your feat. Because to give up her child, offspring, and they started catching unclear signals easily Spirit in his youth, but to do so from time to time ..?!
It turns out that the inherent femininity forever young or those who are in contact with your Spirit.
Therefore, I believe that femininity - is the highest manifestation of spirituality women. And despite the fact that we have been taught that "Motherhood - the highest mission of woman," I'm sure that being a mother is easier than to be feminine, inspiring others to actions
. Many women consider themselves to be feminine, saying that they can inspire. Here are some of their expression:
"My husband is doing what I say".
"Yes, under me a team of 120 people working successfully".
"I like to say - and will!"
These statements express the way of Motherhood: Mother points, what to do. Femininity, on the contrary, is at rest and in the name of her people will want to move.
That is the big difference, which I mentioned at the beginning. Never confuse motherhood with femininity. Because your femininity for us men:
This void, giving answers. This universe is calling the Creator. This light, beckoning to him. It is Peace, to create a movement. Is the life energy of the river, refreshing, invigorating, rushes. This meaning of man's life.
Author: Mark Ifraimov
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