The story of the leaky socks of the son and a private conversation with his daughter-in-law

Couple life fragile material that must be protected. Especially when it comes to young people who just got married. After all, very often they do not withstand the test of strength, immersed in a joint household.



A stereotyped family model where The husband is the earner, and the wife is the keeper of the hearth.It doesn't fit everyone. Moreover, sometimes a woman in principle does not want to do housework, cook or wash. What should a man do then? That's our story today.

My only son Pasha got married when he was 30 years old. I have to admit, my daughter-in-law and I never got along. Although their marriage is almost 5 years old, and now Lena is on maternity leave with my little granddaughter. Let me try to explain why this is so.



One day my son came to dinner because he was nearby. We haven't seen each other in a long time, so I was very happy to have such a sudden visit. Meeting him in the hallway, I handed him slippers and noticed that Pasha had some leaky and old socks. Think about it. Ahn no! It's not the first time I've noticed this.

Does Lena really care what her man looks like? She never irons his clothes and does not care about the cleanliness of his clothes. Of course, now she has a lot of worries with the child. But it's always been so! I remember giving her a housewarming iron. Well, she didn't even unpack it!



And when I asked her why she didn't iron her bed linen, she rolled her eyes and reluctantly replied, "Why iron it at all?" He'll remember! The main thing is to keep it clean.” No, have you seen this?!

But Lena always manages to post another photo in all his social networks with some strange quotes under it. And now the baby is taking pictures from all possible angles. She says she wants to be a baby blogger. God knows what these young men will do!



She doesn't waste any time on her husband. I saw with my own eyes how my son pulled out of a piled pile of clothes the first thing he caught and put on himself. I don’t know if he likes this kind of life. He looks like an experienced bachelor who does not care about his appearance.

After that sock incident, I couldn't stand it and called my daughter-in-law. My anxiety Lena took to bayonets: “I’m not going to follow his socks!” He's not a little boy anymore, and I'm not his mommy. In fact, Pasha will be 35 in six months. Why don't you just give him a set of new socks if he can't buy them himself? ?



So much slyness and malice! Did I really deserve it? I don’t understand at all, can the life of a married couple last long on such indifference to each other? I don't know what to do... Should we try to help them in any way? ?

To live together was not a burden, the spouses need to work on the relationship. Indifference, understatement, hidden grievances sooner or later will lead to divorce. And in the worst case, torment each other for years. People do not always decide to dissolve a marriage. As a result, they begin to change and close themselves even more.



What advice would you give to the main character of today’s story? Should I interfere with my son’s family life, or should I just talk to him? Boldly share your opinion in the comments!