The former daughter-in-law after the divorce quickly married, the son became dull, stopped paying alimony and visited the little granddaughter Bashny.Net

Family ties and relationships with parents play a huge role for a growing person. That is why now Irina wanted her son and granddaughter to communicate again as before. But what if your son doesn’t want to do that?



Peels Son and granddaughter Divorce and new marriage Sergey divorced from anyone when the baby was 3 years old. They separated by mutual consent, without disputes and scandals. Irina Vladimirovna foresaw this, because they got married in a hurry. And being young and inexperienced, the test of life did not pass.

Fortunately, the daughter-in-law was always on good terms with Irina Vladimirovna. And even after the divorce, the women regularly called and visited each other. A year after the dissolution of the marriage, Luba again went under the crown. Sergey did not react very positively to such a rapid replacement of his ex-husband. But he wasn't the one to complain. The new husband of Lyuba happily became a stepfather for her daughter and did not regret anything for the girl.



Peels Sergey became even more upset when he learned that his daughter’s new relative was a wealthy man. He was not a businessman or a wealthy man. So all his gifts were very modest compared to what the girl received every day in a new house.

So after a while, Sergey just stopped making gifts. It was the same with alimony. By his logic, his daughter no longer needed financial help or signs of attention. After all, compared to his stepfather, all the efforts of Sergey will always look worse.



Irina Vladimirovna fiercely argued to her son that it was not about money or as toys. Of course, the girl will enjoy the gifts. Like any child. But she needs a father she knows and loves.

Unfortunately, Sergey did not listen to his mother very much. Instead of meeting with his daughter at the agreed time, he appeared less and less on the doorstep of his ex-wife’s house. Even when Irina Vladimirovna took her granddaughter to her (in the hope that her son would not be ashamed of it), Sergei preferred to ignore the meetings.



Recently, all Irina Vladimirovna thought about was her son and granddaughter. As she feared, the girl began to ask about her father. Where is he? Why doesn't he come? The woman didn't know what to say. She was disappointed that her son was missing the opportunity to be with his child. She was also afraid that Sergey would delay the resumption of relations and in the end her granddaughter would not want to see him.



Peels Luba also shared the former mother-in-law's concerns. She was in no way against meeting Sergei with his daughter. I was also confused about his behavior. During the calls, Sergei evaded answers and sought to end the conversation as soon as possible. As if he didn't want to hear anything about his possible guilt.

Every day it became more difficult for both of them to justify themselves to the child for their father. But what else can they do when a person is simply unwilling to understand and accept their responsibilities as a parent: just be there for them.



It is not about gifts or material good. It is much more important for the child to see and communicate with the parent. Feeling loved, thought and cared for. And when the father suddenly stops visiting and talking, it is the child who suffers first, not the ego of the father.

Son and granddaughter - the result of what to do with Sergei? How do you convince them to start communicating with the child again? Does it make sense to try to reach out to a careless father?