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Is it necessary to leave children and go to Italy for work, if a relative tempts money?
Sometimes the relationship with the mother-in-law is not the best way. You may not even hope for anything. humanism On her side, when a miracle happens. In the end, your husband’s mother becomes your only ally. Intrigued?
Something similar happened to the main character of our history today. In search of a better life for her children, she forgot her own. Let's see what happened in the end.
I was born in a village and spent almost my whole life there. My parents lived in poverty and had a big family in a small house. So from a young age, I dreamed of growing up and leaving them, starting my life.
That's what happened. Almost immediately after school, I married my classmate Mishka. And then I moved to live with him and his mother in another part of the village. Evdokia Semyonovna accepted me, but somehow she was cold to me. And to be honest, I never tried to get along with her. She immediately took up the household, and then the children went: first a boy, and then a girl.
To feed the family, my husband and I worked from morning to night for pennies. I never got a higher education, I had time to study, which I now regret very much. Bear was kind of indifferent to me. But I didn’t want to find out the relationship with him. And there was no strength - all in the work.
One day, my coma came to visit us, who returned from Italy. She went there to work and came back so excited that all evening she talked about only one thing. “Alla, you will never be able to earn as much as you can earn there. Believe me, I have already begun to save money for my son’s apartment!
She left, but I couldn't get my mind off her work. The next day I asked her if I could go there. Valka said she didn't promise anything, but she would ask. A week later, she left, and I returned to normal life, having already forgotten what I began to dream about.
But a few months later Valya suddenly called me. She said the house next door needed a nurse for an elderly woman. Kuma recommended me, and given her good reputation, they trusted her and decided to take me. I couldn’t believe my ears at the time! Of course, it was a serious decision, but the choice was obvious.
I trusted my mother-in-law to take the news calmly. My husband was happy when he found out everything. Since then, we worked with the Kuma in the neighborhood, and went home in turns. I gave everything I earned to my mother-in-law and my husband, I wanted them to put the children on their feet.
10 years passed in one breath. The children were about to turn 14, and I was worried that my mother-in-law would have a hard time dealing with them. But it was too early to go home. I always felt like I wasn’t sending them enough money anyway and that I needed more because there was so much work to do.
Life is a mess. But life made its own adjustments. One day Evdokiya Semyonovna called me and in a quiet calm voice said: “Alla, my path is not long.” You'd better come quickly. And Mishka hasn't been home for a long time. I'm sorry I didn't tell you sooner.”
When I arrived, it turned out that my husband had been cheating on me for a long time. My mother-in-law was afraid to tell me because she didn't want us to divorce. I didn’t want to be alone and live with my son’s new wife. She apologized to me, wiped the tears on her face, said she loved me. He regrets that he was silent all these years, did not show his feelings.
And then Evdokia Semyonovna took out an envelope with money from the locker. There were thousands of euros that she had been saving all these years so I could go back to my family. She had already registered her house for me and promised to do everything in her power to make me and my children happy.
My mother-in-law looked into my eyes and told me to let my husband go. She was not angry with him and was able to let another person into her life. That day, I realized I never knew what my mother-in-law really was. What a truly human act she is capable of. We hugged and cried softly together.
A month later, Evdokia Semyonovna died. But there was hope that life would change for the better. In small steps, I began to get closer to my children. And finally I realized that motherly warmth and nurture are more important than any money in the world.”
This story shows how unpredictable life can be. We never expect a loved one to betray us. But he does, just as he did with the main character's husband. However, the woman was still lucky, and she was able to correctly set her life priorities, forever returning to her children.
I wonder if you have experienced similar situations in your life. It will be great if you share your experience with us in the comments!
Something similar happened to the main character of our history today. In search of a better life for her children, she forgot her own. Let's see what happened in the end.
I was born in a village and spent almost my whole life there. My parents lived in poverty and had a big family in a small house. So from a young age, I dreamed of growing up and leaving them, starting my life.
That's what happened. Almost immediately after school, I married my classmate Mishka. And then I moved to live with him and his mother in another part of the village. Evdokia Semyonovna accepted me, but somehow she was cold to me. And to be honest, I never tried to get along with her. She immediately took up the household, and then the children went: first a boy, and then a girl.
To feed the family, my husband and I worked from morning to night for pennies. I never got a higher education, I had time to study, which I now regret very much. Bear was kind of indifferent to me. But I didn’t want to find out the relationship with him. And there was no strength - all in the work.
One day, my coma came to visit us, who returned from Italy. She went there to work and came back so excited that all evening she talked about only one thing. “Alla, you will never be able to earn as much as you can earn there. Believe me, I have already begun to save money for my son’s apartment!
She left, but I couldn't get my mind off her work. The next day I asked her if I could go there. Valka said she didn't promise anything, but she would ask. A week later, she left, and I returned to normal life, having already forgotten what I began to dream about.
But a few months later Valya suddenly called me. She said the house next door needed a nurse for an elderly woman. Kuma recommended me, and given her good reputation, they trusted her and decided to take me. I couldn’t believe my ears at the time! Of course, it was a serious decision, but the choice was obvious.
I trusted my mother-in-law to take the news calmly. My husband was happy when he found out everything. Since then, we worked with the Kuma in the neighborhood, and went home in turns. I gave everything I earned to my mother-in-law and my husband, I wanted them to put the children on their feet.
10 years passed in one breath. The children were about to turn 14, and I was worried that my mother-in-law would have a hard time dealing with them. But it was too early to go home. I always felt like I wasn’t sending them enough money anyway and that I needed more because there was so much work to do.
Life is a mess. But life made its own adjustments. One day Evdokiya Semyonovna called me and in a quiet calm voice said: “Alla, my path is not long.” You'd better come quickly. And Mishka hasn't been home for a long time. I'm sorry I didn't tell you sooner.”
When I arrived, it turned out that my husband had been cheating on me for a long time. My mother-in-law was afraid to tell me because she didn't want us to divorce. I didn’t want to be alone and live with my son’s new wife. She apologized to me, wiped the tears on her face, said she loved me. He regrets that he was silent all these years, did not show his feelings.
And then Evdokia Semyonovna took out an envelope with money from the locker. There were thousands of euros that she had been saving all these years so I could go back to my family. She had already registered her house for me and promised to do everything in her power to make me and my children happy.
My mother-in-law looked into my eyes and told me to let my husband go. She was not angry with him and was able to let another person into her life. That day, I realized I never knew what my mother-in-law really was. What a truly human act she is capable of. We hugged and cried softly together.
A month later, Evdokia Semyonovna died. But there was hope that life would change for the better. In small steps, I began to get closer to my children. And finally I realized that motherly warmth and nurture are more important than any money in the world.”
This story shows how unpredictable life can be. We never expect a loved one to betray us. But he does, just as he did with the main character's husband. However, the woman was still lucky, and she was able to correctly set her life priorities, forever returning to her children.
I wonder if you have experienced similar situations in your life. It will be great if you share your experience with us in the comments!
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