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Is it possible to marry if you do not know the parents of the groom?
What do you think, What not to do to relativesSo as not to spoil the relationship with each other? Obviously, the well-being of a family can be undermined by constant lies and hypocrisy. And sometimes the behavior of people is not justified at all.
Something similar happened to the heroine of our history today. The poor girl is trying to make contact with her husband’s parents. But is this possible when repeated complaints and reproaches fly in response? Let's see what the problem is.
I met my love when I was still a student. Sasha literally burst into my life and turned my head so much that I could not think of anyone else! He really wanted a family and six months later he proposed to me. I didn't want to have a big wedding. So we decided to just sign and go on a little trip together.
The decision was so spontaneous that we did not even have time to meet our parents. Now I realize I shouldn't have done that. My mother-in-law immediately disliked me. In Sasha she did not want a soul, so for her I became the one who allegedly stole her son. It got to the point where she just called me every day and made unfounded claims. And when Sasha was at work, she could suddenly come and just swing her license.
I endured all this and never complained to my husband. What am I gonna tell him? I didn't want to ruin my relationship with him because of his mother. However, the longer we lived together, the more the behavior of the mother-in-law changed. And certainly not for the better.
At some point Valentina Petrovna began to turn Sasha against my parents. Just think... More recently we went to visit them and had a nice time together. In fact, my husband loved it! He always helped my mom with the housework, and he used to go fishing with my dad.
Sasha denied it. When I tried to find out what had happened, he either refused or remained silent. But I can see how things have changed, and it's bleeding my heart. It is especially difficult to gather the whole family for the holidays. The silence at the table is interrupted from time to time by my mother-in-law’s provocative statements against me. She doesn’t even care that she’s in my house!
This whole situation has seriously affected our family. There were inconsistencies and constant resentment. At some point my husband and I stopped talking. I knew if we didn't talk heart to heart, divorce was inevitable. I just wanted to know what the problem was and where the roots came from.
It was a lot easier than I thought. One day, after another family quarrel with my mother-in-law, I packed up and left, leaving all my relatives at home. Valentina Petrovna did not stop and poured dirt on me in the presence of my parents. Mom couldn’t stand it and made a comment. My mother-in-law was very offended and that’s when she started turning Sasha against my family.
And he was acting like a little kid. The word of the mother was always the law for Sasha. I suspect that Valentina Petrovna also added a couple of affectionate words from herself, embellishing the whole situation. I will never understand this behavior and attitude towards me.
I don't know what to do. I love my husband and parents very much. But will I be able to endure it all the time? I wonder what will happen when we have children. Mother-in-law does not give life, but how will she treat her grandchildren from an unloved daughter-in-law? If someone is in the same situation, what should I do?
This story is the most striking example of this. What not to do to relatives. Guided by unreasonable personal hostility, the mother-in-law of the main character in small steps deliberately destroys the family of her son. Unfortunately, such a problem is not uncommon in our time. After all, not always a mother is ready to let her child go free and accept the fact that he grew up and became an adult.
I wonder if you've ever experienced this kind of behavior in your family? Share your experience in the comments. Perhaps your words will help someone and support in a difficult period.
Something similar happened to the heroine of our history today. The poor girl is trying to make contact with her husband’s parents. But is this possible when repeated complaints and reproaches fly in response? Let's see what the problem is.
I met my love when I was still a student. Sasha literally burst into my life and turned my head so much that I could not think of anyone else! He really wanted a family and six months later he proposed to me. I didn't want to have a big wedding. So we decided to just sign and go on a little trip together.
The decision was so spontaneous that we did not even have time to meet our parents. Now I realize I shouldn't have done that. My mother-in-law immediately disliked me. In Sasha she did not want a soul, so for her I became the one who allegedly stole her son. It got to the point where she just called me every day and made unfounded claims. And when Sasha was at work, she could suddenly come and just swing her license.
I endured all this and never complained to my husband. What am I gonna tell him? I didn't want to ruin my relationship with him because of his mother. However, the longer we lived together, the more the behavior of the mother-in-law changed. And certainly not for the better.
At some point Valentina Petrovna began to turn Sasha against my parents. Just think... More recently we went to visit them and had a nice time together. In fact, my husband loved it! He always helped my mom with the housework, and he used to go fishing with my dad.
Sasha denied it. When I tried to find out what had happened, he either refused or remained silent. But I can see how things have changed, and it's bleeding my heart. It is especially difficult to gather the whole family for the holidays. The silence at the table is interrupted from time to time by my mother-in-law’s provocative statements against me. She doesn’t even care that she’s in my house!
This whole situation has seriously affected our family. There were inconsistencies and constant resentment. At some point my husband and I stopped talking. I knew if we didn't talk heart to heart, divorce was inevitable. I just wanted to know what the problem was and where the roots came from.
It was a lot easier than I thought. One day, after another family quarrel with my mother-in-law, I packed up and left, leaving all my relatives at home. Valentina Petrovna did not stop and poured dirt on me in the presence of my parents. Mom couldn’t stand it and made a comment. My mother-in-law was very offended and that’s when she started turning Sasha against my family.
And he was acting like a little kid. The word of the mother was always the law for Sasha. I suspect that Valentina Petrovna also added a couple of affectionate words from herself, embellishing the whole situation. I will never understand this behavior and attitude towards me.
I don't know what to do. I love my husband and parents very much. But will I be able to endure it all the time? I wonder what will happen when we have children. Mother-in-law does not give life, but how will she treat her grandchildren from an unloved daughter-in-law? If someone is in the same situation, what should I do?
This story is the most striking example of this. What not to do to relatives. Guided by unreasonable personal hostility, the mother-in-law of the main character in small steps deliberately destroys the family of her son. Unfortunately, such a problem is not uncommon in our time. After all, not always a mother is ready to let her child go free and accept the fact that he grew up and became an adult.
I wonder if you've ever experienced this kind of behavior in your family? Share your experience in the comments. Perhaps your words will help someone and support in a difficult period.
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