Why does a woman cheat on the husband she loves?

It happens in life that love and betrayal They go hand in hand. For some, this can be a real tragedy, and someone, on the contrary, treats this state of affairs quite calmly.



A reader wrote to us who, for obvious reasons, decided not to disclose her name. Her situation, in our opinion, is quite sad, but we are not used to judging anyone. Perhaps you can give her some useful advice, and her life will change for the better.

Love and betrayal Hello, "Site". No matter what my name is, I am 38 years old. I look great, earn good money and like to indulge in a good rest. Married. There are three children and a beloved husband. He doesn’t even complain about his salary, he even makes more money than me.



I met him in college, but for a long time could not have a romantic relationship. We were friends. We went to the movies, the theater. It is now that young people quickly get involved, and before it was impossible to do so. And there was nowhere to go, a walk along a beautiful alley or park is already a good pastime.

Then it all started to spin... Marriage, a normal job, baby. Then they changed jobs to more prestigious, business, children. Everything seems perfect. Actually, it's close. I love my husband and he loves me. But the spark is gone. We haven’t talked in a long time like normal people. Just talking about kids and work.



It turns out that we are no longer two people in love, but some business partners. I know everything about my husband and my husband knows everything about me. Well, not quite. Or not everything, because I'm cheating on him.

It started a long time ago, and for the first time it seemed to me like some horrible, most shameful act of my life. There was a time when my husband and I were fighting, and the problems completely overwhelmed me. I wanted support and human warmth. I lost it. An affair, nothing more.



Then somehow, without realizing it, I got into the taste and changed men like gloves. We had a more serious relationship, we dated for a year, but then decided not to see each other again. He went to another country and I deleted all contact with him.

But the husband has no idea. The specificity of my work allows me to stay away from home for a long time, so my husband is used to my absence. But he calls me all the time. Unfortunately, not to test me, but to let me know where he is. This fact hurts me, because at such moments I realize how ugly I really am.



I respect the father of my children. He has done so much for me, and there is no question of divorce. But we have one life, and we want to experience at least some joy and variety. Living with a workaholic is a test. If it were his will, he would not take a day off or vacation. That would work.

But why so much? Children learn well. Dressed, shoes. I've never complained and could, in fact, support our entire family alone. I just need a little attention!



Sorry if it's too confusing, but it's more of a stream of thoughts and feelings than a coherent story. And there is nothing to talk about, the whole point I told. Finally, I want to say to those women who think that their husbands earn little. Dear ones, the main thing is love and understanding. To want to live with a person, love and talk. No amount of money can replace that. Love your men and be loved. I wish you that with all my heart.