When bad is good

Bad is good

 

Someday IT will happen and it will be good if IT happens in the right place at the right time. THIS will open a Life very different side. Because the desire to write your story "in white", with no blots and smudges, immediately clean copy, we simply forget to live. We are afraid, feel unsure in the future, keep coming back to the past, I think that someone something should be, and things might be very different. We read tons of life-affirming quotes, do self-development, trying to find the "easy way" to permanent pleasure, to the "easy" Life without problems. Although you and I understand that Life can't always be exemplary.





And if THAT happens, you will be left alone. All alone when all friends and acquaintances turn away from you and no one was around. Then you just have to look for support within themselves, pouring the Foundation of a new life. Relying on the inner core. To collect the bricks of the wall. To insulate the roof, and patterns to decorate the front door. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, then life will hit you to crack you like a nut and look at the kernel, and then you will be forced to find a new shell to protect himself. Have to drag myself out of the pit of depression and despair to the top. But you will know what's under there. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you will be hurt. As painful as ever. It is a cleansing pain. It would be a pain from amputation to prevent gangrene from spreading. This will help the pain reborn from within. When the scars will become the new door, and the burns — new tattoos. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you become vulnerable and vulnerable to people. And everyone will see it. And every at this moment be ready to poke in the open wound. So to become stronger, survival of the fittest. But you will understand who is with you and who against you. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you will be disappointed in life, people, friends, environment, ideas, religion and belief in kindness. This will allow you to look at the real world. See it for what it is. No manipulation of the facts, without deception, without concealment, without masks. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you will not know the answers to the questions, you will lose the support feet and see that the sky fell to the ground. Then you have to look for new horizons and the old answers to their questions. Will have to re-build your inner world, on a new Foundation and to do something on their own. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you will tear to pieces. Each piece you will pull you in different directions, and your house will be like a trail of dominoes. Falls one diminescu — falling. But you have a chance to gather inner peace again. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you will be left alone, and you don't have someone to ask for advice. You have to ask yourself. And find the answers within. Not from a stranger. From Ego. To become stronger and firmer. When bad is good.





And if THAT happens, you will be sickening and unbearable. You try to "push" World, and he will resist. Then you'll just have to leave the World alone, and let him be the way he is. In yourself the way you are. When bad is good.

If THIS happens, you will be deceived, betrayed, crushed. Move the roller, in spite of your tears. Betray, in spite of a long friendship. Crushed in spite of your "love". And then this experience will stay with you for life, will add wrinkles and gray hair. But you will know the price man. Myself including. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, then someone very close will turn away from you. And you learn that there is nothing eternal on earth. You will suffer the depth of despair, but lost illusions. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you will see a whole gap between you and loved ones. Will two lives, two truths, two Ways. If the Paths differ, then it means only one thing — the further you go in different directions. And not always a new Path is worse than the previous. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you will not love. And certainly you will not like all of humanity. But you certainly will love the World with which you will have its own system of values and loved ones. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you have to burn bridges. Simply because have nothing to lose. Just because there is nothing more to cherish. But you will learn that the past is lived not in vain. And the stronger burning bridges, the lighter the road ahead. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you will see a close death. Desperately your loved one. But you will see how the unwillingness to live without him, replaced by a quiet sadness in moments of happiness, which was next to him. It will make you even more appreciative of friends and relatives. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you may lose money, but you will see the true attitude of people towards you. One whose good attitude to you you bought will fall off like a leech. Your environment will be cleaner. When bad is good.

And if THAT happens, you will experience health problems. But you know how badly you want to live. No matter what it was before, all will depart on the second plan. You look for the little joys and to become more harmonious. When bad is good.

And there will be NIGHT like that pass, beyond which the performance expectations...

And if THAT happens, you'll get through it. Transformed, like a caterpillar transformed into a butterfly. Suffer the pain, anger, guilt and shame, will fall to the bottom and emerges as a swimmer who emerges from the deep.

And if THAT happens, you will see real people and real life. Lost illusions and a tendency to self-deception.You will see the true motives of people, will find their Way and their sources of joy.

If LIFE happens...in the right place... at the right time... published

Author: Olga Rybakina

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

Source: balanceinlife.ru/kogda-ploho-e-to-horosho/

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