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Crisis one year the child
The child actively explores the world. Before he could walk, his movement was limited. From the time when the baby learned to walk, his world expanded and filled with many things that "require" attention. The child travels and learns how to construct the stove in the kitchen, tucked away in the closet for shoes, he also tends to pick up every item, to inspect, to twist, to try "to the tooth". But suddenly the parents hear "no". He does not understand the reasons for this. Therefore tries and cries when the ban sounds again. The child tries all available means to Express their wishes. The kid isn't able to speak to Express their dissatisfaction. And new attempts of understanding the world cause new restrictions.
© Norman Rockwell
So will the little man's first encounter with the will of the adult. A child in a year wants to act himself, he's not satisfied with the position of the doll, which feed, swaddle, give a toy, when I want, talk when I don't talk. He strives to be independent, and to communicate on their own. And here is another paradox — the desire to communicate is there, but the words to Express it all, yet. It is difficult to understand what he wants the baby, even though he tries to Express own desires and needs.
Where it all begins?Approaching the first Birthday of baby, mom rarely notice disturbing, in their opinion, changes in the behavior of the child. Psychologists give an explanation of such changes and soothe moms. Crisis one year appears in almost all children, he's not scary.
The first thing you need to understand the parents about the development crisis is that a crisis arises prior to a major leap in the attitude of the child.
In addition to the crisis of one year, scientists say about three crisis years and the crisis is seven years. Common to them is that a child's thinking and its development have reached a qualitatively new level. To some extent, he is indignant that they did not understand "truths" before he moves away from his parents, becomes independently and requires more freedom.
Changing needs of the child, and he doesn't understand why parents don't notice it immediately. Any not previously a conflict situation may cause a child's storm of emotions, moods and tantrums.
That feels baby?In the year your child becomes independently. He moves around the room without your help, reaches for things on shelves and tables, makes the first steps. Child development takes place rapidly.
The most important discovery in this period for the child is that mom and dad are adults. They do not like it. They are allowed more than him, they know more than he does. Baby first realizes himself as a person, separate from mom, and is beginning to show character.
When the little man is going through a crisis of one year, it seems to him that you forbid him to chew the wire and collect the cigarette butts on the street because you don't like it. He doesn't understand what these items are different from "allowed". It is sure that you let him know the world and its development its prohibitions.
Your child wants to lead you, not Vice versa. Wants to choose the time for games and walks, toys, and maybe even clothing. And what is very important – wants to communicate. Unfortunately, speech development year-old child does not allow him to Express all that one wants, and a lack of understanding by parents of the child can be angry, to be disobedient.
Independence of the kid during this period is manifested in different ways. He might be offended, when he tell you what to do with a toy or a book, trying to copy their parents in their daily actions. And in this moment you need to wrap the process in their favor.
Show your child how to wash hands before eating, how to hold a spoon, to press the bell when you came in from a walk, etc. to Cultivate responsibility and independence in kids need from early childhood.
What not to do when the child crisis one year?As you know, the crisis development is a natural process. Different children it is different, starts when early and when late in the year, but go through it virtually all. So, do not blame the child and think that he is to blame. Do not be nervous, do not yell at the child and tell him rude words.
Give the child more room for games – not to take from the crumbs of all that is specifically for games not designed. It's fragile, sharp and expensive things just get higher, and the rest of the child can well afford to play. Especially a lot stored at my mom in the kitchen – the lids from cans, the unbreakable plates, spoons, a funnel for liquids, etc.
In the year to start training that a child would not appreciate before. Buy toddler finger paints, children's whistle (my son plays the tune from 7 months – it's fun! ), glockenspiel, etc. in the crisis of a child's development as never before is attracting new and unknown.
Don'T start to indulge all the whims of the child, not spoil him – the crisis of one year of the end, but the vagaries remain.
Experiencing crisis of one year, sometimes baby does not want to release mum from itself. It is also one of the signs of the crisis of development that will soon take place. Maybe sometimes you have to postpone the shopping, or take the child with them. Try not to leave a child in tears and hysterics, even if it's someone close.
I repeat once again – do not be nervous, and then you won't be able to remember when your child came out of this troublesome, but a very important period of development.
Good luck to you!
источник:psychologos.ru
Source: /users/1077
© Norman Rockwell
So will the little man's first encounter with the will of the adult. A child in a year wants to act himself, he's not satisfied with the position of the doll, which feed, swaddle, give a toy, when I want, talk when I don't talk. He strives to be independent, and to communicate on their own. And here is another paradox — the desire to communicate is there, but the words to Express it all, yet. It is difficult to understand what he wants the baby, even though he tries to Express own desires and needs.
Where it all begins?Approaching the first Birthday of baby, mom rarely notice disturbing, in their opinion, changes in the behavior of the child. Psychologists give an explanation of such changes and soothe moms. Crisis one year appears in almost all children, he's not scary.
The first thing you need to understand the parents about the development crisis is that a crisis arises prior to a major leap in the attitude of the child.
In addition to the crisis of one year, scientists say about three crisis years and the crisis is seven years. Common to them is that a child's thinking and its development have reached a qualitatively new level. To some extent, he is indignant that they did not understand "truths" before he moves away from his parents, becomes independently and requires more freedom.
Changing needs of the child, and he doesn't understand why parents don't notice it immediately. Any not previously a conflict situation may cause a child's storm of emotions, moods and tantrums.
That feels baby?In the year your child becomes independently. He moves around the room without your help, reaches for things on shelves and tables, makes the first steps. Child development takes place rapidly.
The most important discovery in this period for the child is that mom and dad are adults. They do not like it. They are allowed more than him, they know more than he does. Baby first realizes himself as a person, separate from mom, and is beginning to show character.
When the little man is going through a crisis of one year, it seems to him that you forbid him to chew the wire and collect the cigarette butts on the street because you don't like it. He doesn't understand what these items are different from "allowed". It is sure that you let him know the world and its development its prohibitions.
Your child wants to lead you, not Vice versa. Wants to choose the time for games and walks, toys, and maybe even clothing. And what is very important – wants to communicate. Unfortunately, speech development year-old child does not allow him to Express all that one wants, and a lack of understanding by parents of the child can be angry, to be disobedient.
Independence of the kid during this period is manifested in different ways. He might be offended, when he tell you what to do with a toy or a book, trying to copy their parents in their daily actions. And in this moment you need to wrap the process in their favor.
Show your child how to wash hands before eating, how to hold a spoon, to press the bell when you came in from a walk, etc. to Cultivate responsibility and independence in kids need from early childhood.
What not to do when the child crisis one year?As you know, the crisis development is a natural process. Different children it is different, starts when early and when late in the year, but go through it virtually all. So, do not blame the child and think that he is to blame. Do not be nervous, do not yell at the child and tell him rude words.
Give the child more room for games – not to take from the crumbs of all that is specifically for games not designed. It's fragile, sharp and expensive things just get higher, and the rest of the child can well afford to play. Especially a lot stored at my mom in the kitchen – the lids from cans, the unbreakable plates, spoons, a funnel for liquids, etc.
In the year to start training that a child would not appreciate before. Buy toddler finger paints, children's whistle (my son plays the tune from 7 months – it's fun! ), glockenspiel, etc. in the crisis of a child's development as never before is attracting new and unknown.
Don'T start to indulge all the whims of the child, not spoil him – the crisis of one year of the end, but the vagaries remain.
Experiencing crisis of one year, sometimes baby does not want to release mum from itself. It is also one of the signs of the crisis of development that will soon take place. Maybe sometimes you have to postpone the shopping, or take the child with them. Try not to leave a child in tears and hysterics, even if it's someone close.
I repeat once again – do not be nervous, and then you won't be able to remember when your child came out of this troublesome, but a very important period of development.
Good luck to you!
источник:psychologos.ru
Source: /users/1077
