Decent men no! Bashny.Net

When I hear the consultation that "no decent men" or "all men cheat", always ask this question: "How long have You had men?"

"With the relationship or in General?" — a woman tries to grow a number, so the findings look convincing. And even in this case, as a rule, it appears that a serious relationship (that could end the marriage) there were a couple of the force, and men -three-five, including the most frivolous possible.And that's a lot, because often a woman in life is one or two men.





For men, this woman is a model of cleanliness, but in fact it turns out that in the personality of the women collected almost all the fears and limitations of the existing ones.

Global conclusion about all men based on one or three representatives, isn't it?

For any responsible conclusions about "all", it is necessary to have relationships with so many men to count for statistics. Otherwise, all the conclusions of the women — it is the opinion of mothers about men or relationship to the Pope, or the relationship between parents with all throw each other claims and accusations.





And it's not a woman's opinion that no "decent men" is the mother did not consider the Pope worthy of, most likely, or grown-up girl was no longer considered it so, having donned my mother's model of behavior, or a girl has not experienced the Oedipus complex, retaining the father as the ideal man, to which,of course, all others fall short.

In short, without proper statistics, your beliefs are not your beliefs, and imbibed from childhood unconscious limitations. And with a large number of acquaintances there is no guarantee that you are picking up men in confirmation of his unconscious expectations. In General, the therapy. published

 

Author: Lilia Ahremchik

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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