Mother-in-law wanted to pocket an apartment, began convincingly to tell that my mother is still young at 56 years old, quite fitting bride. Bashny.Net

In Lilia’s family, unnecessary help in the form of advice from her mother-in-law became commonplace. Every time Claudia Petrovna crossed the threshold of the daughter-in-law’s apartment, the latter was edified about the living space. The apartment in which Lily and her husband live belongs only to Lily and her mother. Which, apparently, does not suit the mother-in-law.



Peels Unnecessary help Lilia and her flat Lilia has never bragged about having her own flat. Of course, she lived in it alone before marriage, but according to documents, half of the property belonged to her mother. She lived in another city and rarely visited her daughter. Women never really asked the question of owning an apartment until Claudia Petrovna appeared in Lily’s life.



Since the first meeting, the future mother-in-law was actively interested in the prosperity of Lily. What salary? Is there an apartment? Got it? Oh, mom, half belongs to... After the wedding, the interrogation turned into manipulation. At almost every meeting, Klavdia Petrovna argued that her husband and wife should have everything equally, including the rights to an apartment. Lilia successfully held the defense and did not enter into a dispute with her mother-in-law.



After a while, the mother-in-law began talking directly about Lily’s mother. She is a young woman and can still get married. And if you imagine that something bad will happen to her, then you will have to fight with your stepfather for the second half of the apartment.

- Do you want this? So it's best if your mom puts her share on you or your son.



Peels Controversy and quarrels Lily stood as if dug in. Not only did the mother marry without her knowledge, but the inheritance was already divided. At that moment, Lily for the first time did not hold back and expressed all her suspicions about her intentions. She also reminded that Klavdia Petrovna should not worry about the state of the mother and her property. If she decides to get married, it will be her business. They'll sort out the apartment somehow.

After a short fight, Klavdia Petrovna went home. Since then, she rarely came to visit, and Lily did not want to see her. She told her husband she didn't want his mother in their house. What he didn't say.



A month later, Lily's mother announced that she would finally be able to visit her daughter with her son-in-law. Joyful Lily was already preparing a room for the guest, when her husband began to express discontent: how is it that her mother can sleep with them, and Claudia Petrovna can not even visit? A dispute broke out, as a result of which it became clear that the words of the mother-in-law greatly influenced the spouse. And now he perceived the mother-in-law not as a relative, but as someone who does not want to give their family an apartment completely.

- If it bothers you so much, then go to your mother and there come to your senses, Lilia said with the thought that if he really leaves, then he will not be allowed back.



Peels But the husband stayed. The couple began to talk less, but harmony was gradually restored. No one else raised the subject of an apartment or inheritance. Lily was happy about it. All in good time. And now it was time for a guest.

Is Claudia Petrovna right to worry about the future of her daughter-in-law’s apartment? Or is it just unnecessary help that spoils relations between relatives? Was Lily right when she forbade her mother-in-law to come to her house? Should Lily's mother give half the apartment?