You don't have what I need

"The difference between the almost right word and the right word — between the lightning bug and the lightning."

Mark TWAIN

Feels the virus once recorded in our speech daily, now it has become a familiar and comfortable: "you don't owe anyone anything". Tired to help someone, not knowing how to refuse, found it difficult to clarify the terms of partnership and cooperation, happily sigh, getting himself in the head this myslevirus. Prone to irresponsibility or destruction of relationships, with the similar phrase untie his hands, "I don't owe anybody anything. All. Point."

Let's look at the life, we easily find that it is not.

Needs! Even as they should. Have your old parents, have children while they are small, must, if pledged, shall, if partnered, have, who vouched, who called who tamed.





Man is a cell in the body of all mankind. The physical body consists of individual cells, as the body of humanity of individual people. If the cells of your body "declare" that each of them do not need anyone, your body will fall apart. Connection will disappear, the body will cease to exist. Everything is connected with everything.

Understand we or not, we owe each other — to love, to respect, to appreciate, to help, to support. Have myself and another: "love your neighbor as yourself" "treat others as you would like them to treat you." Otherwise, we will slit each other's throats, figuratively and naturally.

We need each other, if you want to live, if you want to live happily with a soul and heart in the world, thinking and understanding why it is we owe each other.

It "should" connects us and supports the ball on the earth with all its history, supports our ability to be a human. To be a man.

Is there still any sense in this myslevirus "you do not have", but destructive?

There is, but it needs to be expressed otherwise. While there is only a phrase formula: "You should not only what should not".

We do not have to match anybody's illusions-expectations about us.

We should not promise what you cannot fulfill.

We don't have to do the ambiguous hints, introducing others astray, thereby, prodding them in vain to hope for us.

We don't have to say "Yes" when you really want to say "no".

We should not force others to meet our expectations. Our expectations it is our responsibility, not the debt of the other.

We should not bite the hand that feeds us.

We should not spit in the source from which you drink.

We don't have to live by the principle "after us the deluge."

"Caesar and the God of gods". /The gospel of Matthew, Chapter 22, art. 15-21/





We should be able to say "no" and be able to understand through the experiences of those who can't get over our failure.

We need to be able to say "no" so as not to humiliate the person.

We need to be able to say "no", based on the state of respect for yourself and others.

We need in relationships, whether business or personal, to determine/negotiate the terms of interaction that then was not painfully hurt for something I didn't expect.

We must take care of those who gave us life.

We must take care of those to whom we give life.

We need to grow spiritually.

We need to understand and make sense of why we came into this world.

We must learn to love without conditions and without reason, because it is the basis of life.

We must learn to forgive others and yourself, "our father... as you leave our debts..."

We should be able to be grateful for what is, even if we don't have what you really want to be.

We should be able to give and give. Because that's going, then destroy. What you give will come back again.

We should not expect anything from others, because we get only what we deserve.

We should be generous and kind.

We must conquer pride, anger, and greed.

We must understand that there is nothing unchanged.

We need to understand who, when and how they can help and when to allow the individual to resolve their situation, to be able to grow.

Because it makes us Human.

 



Get rid of the illusion that you can change other people

Card body: at the level of the body to change a life

Still alive the last righteous man who understands the law of the universe -we are all in the same boat, we all need each other, the world will stand. Everyone else can live in ignorance, to assume that every man for himself.published

 

Author: Elena Romanova

 



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