Love with eyes or soul

Some of the problems of relationships have always been incomprehensible to me, since I loved by the smell, by the inner feelings of being with a woman. I am sure that this is the truth of harmony in a couple. To follow not the calculation of the mind, not the advice, but the feeling. Not how I look with him/her, but whether she/he is worthy, and when you don’t care about it, you just want to be with that person and that’s it. This was told by Paul Standzon specifically for .

No conventions.



When I was asked how I felt about one of the definitions of love, I replied that it was bad, not because the definition was bad, but because where there are definitions, it is no longer love.

Can you know a river by wetting your foot?

Can you talk about the warmth of the water, how you're going to be in that water, without sinking into it?

As with love, many men and women are afraid to plunge into it.

It amazes me how many women suffer without finding a man, even though each of you has more and better intuition and emotional intelligence than our men.

It’s amazing that women love to read and learn, but they suffer. Maybe an overabundance of intelligence? And because when you've got two degrees, it's inappropriate to be with a man with a high school education?

- Why are you suffering, women? Why did you always choose scumbags when you were a child who sent you instead of modest and romantic ones?

Many men are occupied by the appearance of a woman, as many women are occupied by their appearance.

But this is a bet on short-term effects.

A man flattered by your outward beauty will leave you when you get older, or just start looking worse.

That’s where the beauty industry warms its hands, playing on the constant tension, the fear of women looking worse.

Imagine the tremendous fear and tension that such a woman constantly experiences. Looking in the mirror for the purpose of “how I look” sometimes becomes a mania. It takes a lot of time, nerves, and therefore health and nerves.

Do you think losing weight to a certain standard makes you look better? Nothing like that. The tension from violence over the body is so loud that with such a woman not only sleep, do not want to live, and even just be close.

I also want to ask, why do you all wear the same makeup, pluck your eyebrows, etc.?

Sometimes I see a lot of clones of some girl in the video.

How did you all conspire to be the same? Swell your lips like Angelina Jolie, wear glasses.

What's the joke?

That a man would bite on the wrapper from the clip? What's trending now? You got the trend? Or is it you?

A truly profitable and long-lasting investment is the development of internal beauty, which incidentally affects the beauty of the external.

I wonder what a woman hides under the burning desire to look beautiful on the outside?

Fear of letting a man go deeper into his inner world?



But only deep spiritual interpenetration gives the highest pleasure in all areas of relationships, whether from sex, conversation or simply silence.

What gives the highest pleasure in sex? Why are people loyal to each other, why are there couples who are with each other for 50 years?

Because the depth of knowledge of another gives the depth of self-knowledge.

And sex, and silence, and conversation -- they're really great only with a regular partner, provided you want to get to know each other better and deeper.

Do you want to look beyond the surface?

There are also people who constantly change partners because they have a desire to catch this “seeming happiness” of the candy-bouquet period and an unwillingness to let the other into the depths of themselves for fear of suffering, not being safe, depending, etc.





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Spiritual love is the brightest and most beautiful thing that can be. We add the body and we get the relationship. published



Author: Pavel Standzon, especially for





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