First,the ability to make decisions (i.e., decisiveness) and the ability to take responsibility for them.
Sometimes the husband having not to the extent of the business, active wife, it seems that she is waiting for his complete obedience and obedience, but it is not.
The legislative behavior of women may be a reaction to the weakness of men, and in fact she subconsciously expecting his determination, thinking: "Well, take any sort of decision!"
After all, to be head of the family, person responsible – direct calling men: "the Husband is head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church: and He is the Saviour of the body" (Eph. 5: 23).Second, what every woman wants and the wife is attentive, caring attitude toward her of the man she loved.
Because in nature women of God inherent desire for a strong male shoulder to the man able to take care of her, support and comfort her.
If she does not find this in the male, the behavior becomes inconsistent with women's nature and destiny. Suffers as she and her husband.
Determination and responsibility, on the one hand, and the tenderness and attention with another is the key to the heart of the woman.
© Hieromonk Job
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