10 the main problems in relationships with men

Their men we discuss with my mom, her friends, colleagues and even neighbors. In the desire to understand nothing bad, but problems still remain unresolved. But the fact that men more often we discuss with women. British journalist Humphrey hunter in his the book "Men: the x-files" (Publishing house "Eksmo") answers many questions from the point of view of the stronger sex.

According to the author, this book is in no way embellished, absolutely honest description of men-singles: how they work, how to think, what they want and why do certain things".Interviewing a huge number of women, Humphrey has allocated some of our most important problems in the relationship and gladly gives recommendations.

Problem 1."They believe that house-elves (that is women) wash all the dishes, wash clothes, throw trash and are filled with food the refrigerator."

We are angry at men for their lack of help, but the author believes that it is not in ravnodushie and laziness."We will be happy to perform my part and a little bit beyond that. Agreement should be reached with her man: she won't treat him like an incompetent employee, and he will have more to do around the house."

Problem 2."They offer us a solution when we just want to be listened to".

It turns out that the same complexity is men with us."Best right to tell the person that you should just "open the floodgates" and remove the burden from the soul."

Problem 3."They do not attach importance to our plans, birthdays or anniversaries and can't remember them."

The author explains that the rules of free men not in the habit of buying cards and gifts. But it is important that with the advent of the life of a friend, everything changes."If a girl has a guy who really doesn't mind about the things that they have planned, or even forgets her birthday, then maybe she should think about his feelings".

Problem 4."They suffer from "men's flu" and shameless hypochondria".

We believe this is whining, but the author takes a different position."Take care of him when he's sick. If he's not really sick, he himself is soon bored. But don't tell the man that he is not sick and he ought to get up and take care of business".

Problem 5."They hate shopping, unless it is not necessary to buy something for them – then they become obsessed".

It's not a tug on the blanket. Just men do not understand women's ways."All the pillows seem about the same. But remember who dragged heavy bags home."

Issue 6."If he goes to drink a mug, there and back again", then he turns off the phone, and he comes crawling home at four in the morning, good-for-nothing".

If this does not happen too often, don't worry."Men often don't know how much time they need "to walk". Our parties can live your own life".

Problem 7."He won't let me choose what we watch on TV."

Here the author is on the side of men."If you are really annoyed by the fact that it does not allow you to choose what to watch, be smart. Look for a compromise."

Problem 8."He sees the lustful look anything with a long open legs and big Tits".

It is not necessary to treat men like animals."It is as natural as feeling hungry or tired. But there are limits to how tolerant you need to treat this".

Problem 9."They expect praise for every little thing despite the fact that it took them an eternity to do it."

The author insists that this is one of the most important things for men."Most of all we love to receive from their girlfriends food, praise and sex."

Problem 10."They are spending our savings on stupid overpriced gadgets".

Here the men psychology. Toys are loved by both men and women."Before you pounce on him for it, try to compare how much a year I spend on clothes you".

 

Source: domashniy.ru/