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How to solve problems quickly and efficiently
Very much has been written about the classification of problems, methodology of solving them, painted-painted different algorithms "to solve problems", but nothing much changes. Once there are problems, then there are methods to solve them, well, can not be so that humanity since its appearance has not faced any problems. There were many of them and they somehow resolved. Now we don't have a problem with us for food from the cave exit does not give a saber-toothed tiger that wants to eat us. The problems are solved.
The first thing you need to know (and that many people already know, but I just remind you) that if the person himself does not want to solve their problem or problems, then they will not be solved. A person can only help to solve it. This statement was tasted — tested, checked and rechecked, but the fact remains: if a person (or group of people) does not want to solve the problem, it will not be solved and no help to solve it. There are, of course, and even more severe case, when a person or group of people do not realize that they have real problems and accordingly they will sit, and they (problems) will they ruin lives. Therefore, in order that we could solve the problem or problems, they must first realize, to discover.
And here is the method, you call it exercise or something else, but it works:
- The first thing to do is to take a sheet of paper and a pen and write a list of issues that you have with You or in your field, no matter whether You consider it so that you can solve or one that cannot be solved, just write.
- Second: choose from the entire list the problem which You have easier for You to just realize that is the problem that You think or do is perceived as the smallest. People often make the mistake of trying to do something with the biggest problem.
- Third: you have chosen such a problem (looking at the whole list it as a label or write out the wording below the entire list), and now write down(of course, you need to think about that will), that you can do to solve this problem. I mean, really, what can You do to solve this problem.
- And fourth: do it!!! That is, will solve this little problem.
You make a list of problems (e.g. you have 5):
— the problem with the teeth, it is necessary to go to the dentist, but are afraid;
— Apartment 15 years;
— trash will not tolerate anyone, the kitchen stinks;
— there is no additional source of income, but I still want more money;
the son does not want to learn and no there's nothing you can not do anything. You see that trash you care less (and here it is not necessary to include "son-idiot, moreover, that does not want to learn, so he is the garbage can not stand, do not understand that garbage it is necessary to make" - now You stink, and not him, you have a problem). Here and write this problem as the smallest or mark it in your list. Write down what you can do. You, not the blockhead. And write"Stand in the yard in the trash" (or home garbage disposal, or somewhere else where normal people throw the trash, and not the neighbor at the apartment, as this will be another issue). So easily or with difficulty, reluctantly teeth, You take out a bucket with garbage and bring it home without dust and maybe wash it (if there's something stank). And one less problem and of the son, then do not chase for it — it is not. And here maths here is this: let's define a problem as a unit, the unit your nerves, focus, time, effort, mental activity, carefulness, energy and other things. In our example, 5 problems, that is 5 units. Due to the fact that they have You, they add up to one another, and that is multiplied because it's all yours. And get 5 (units) problems are multiplied by 5 problems (items) and get 25 units of negative emotions, nerves and so on and the feeling that You are not 5 separate issues, and 25! And it all weighs on you and soon you have the feeling that everything is a problem and there is no way out of this.
And now you want to cope with the biggest — how to take power, if you, in fact, 25 of the problems that all the power pushing you?
And then you took out the trash and now you have 4 problems, and 4 times 4 is 16, that is, 9 units of negative voltage or less. Those 9 units, which are now yours, and You will now be able to use to solve the following problems from the list and on some other, more constructive or useful and pleasant things.
Then look at the list further. And you find that the following problem, which is easier for you to just watch is what you need teeth to put in order and you write down what you could do with that and then go to the dentist (maybe quickly before knowing where is the most humane in the world the dentist) and bring the teeth in order. Now you have 3 problems, and 3 times 3 is 9 units, that is still less than 7 units. And so the list goes on: find from a list the easy, write what you can do about it and now you have 2 problems or a total of 4 units (and the rest of the original 25 are released and give You more opportunities to do something and more courage to tackle other problems arise and the like). And then you are left with one problem that is most likely not a problem but will be the task you want to perform.
There is one caveat: as you reduce the number of problems you may desire to throw all the others. Do not do this correctly — to solve them. Of course, maybe with the release of "locked up" in the problems units have a new Outlook on life and you have something reschedules in my life and something will simply cease to be your problem (such as a hurricane in the US, you stop caring or you find out that your son knows what he wants and he is interested in specialized training and that the goal will be — to find those people or institutions that will help your son develop their skills and talents in the sphere of activity to which he has pull).
Do the 4th step, they very much help to and naturally what to take out the trash may take a few minutes to create and easy to promote your business (or another) is likely to take more time.
If you begin to eat the problems - just do these 4 steps.
As for the solution of problems that do not concern you personally, but, for example, collective (staff, country, and so on), here have the biggest blockages to eliminate all together, but that's a separate issue.
You will succeed!
Source: naturalworld.ru/article_kak-pravilno-reshat-problemi.htm