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Whatever jealousy — male or female, past or present, unfounded or one that deliberately provoke, above all is always anxiety and huge stress.

To understand why this feeling takes us or the partner and interferes with peaceful living and harmonious relations, it is useful to wonder why it arises in each particular pair.

The nature of jealousy itself is pretty simple — we feel the danger of losing, fear of being alone or of loneliness itself (if the behavior of the partner does not go abroad, but his attention goes not only to us but to someone else), we lose the trust and stability.

What is behind the feeling of possessiveness? This is very similar to the feelings of the child remaining without the support of adults when he can't navigate in life are free. As children, we are the absolute owners — it provides us security and comfort.

But in jealousy of adults there is one part of a relationship, which speaks to the lack of sufficient warmth, closeness and caring, without which love is not love. In this case, jealousy is healthy and light, which calls to question: why would I want a relationship where between me and a man has no desire to each other.

So in the end, jealousy can neither deny nor suppress nor burn in any bad and unworthy feelings. Moreover, it is important and can bring concrete benefits. If you remember a few good rules that let the crazy energy of jealousy in a constructive way.

Jealousy destroys a Clear understanding that jealousy has nothing to do with your value to the partner, nor the threat your senses can greatly ease the burden of worries. Strictly speaking, your love — separately, jealousy separately. Attention men never switches to another woman due to the fact that you have something wrong or because he chose to offend you. Rather, you will do something wrong if you allow your jealousy to lead you. The first step is to understand their feeling and do not bump into the conclusions.

Jealousy is cheating if you know that your feelings are strong, but certain situations and small moments constantly fill you in anger and suspicion, you need to set the record straight. You weren't motivated by respect, and the inability to feel happy when things are going well. It is important in favor of what you choose to wear down and the man on the habit to find fault with fact or peaceful relations, based on a reasonable approach.

The jealousy tormented by Grinding in themselves of unpleasant feelings is more dangerous than you might think. You can shut up, meeting podzaderzhalisj husband of the guests, and then explode the scandal because of some nonsense. To talk about their feelings is necessary, it is important not to look guilty. You can complain and even whine that they are afraid to lose a loved one and was torn up in anticipation. Because you love him and want to be sure of reciprocity.

Jealousy rescues Often jealousy is used as a means of guarantee. You want to make sure that you are actually smarter than the spectacular blonde and sexy work colleague who sits with him in the same office. Again and again you test my worthiness by using jealousy to conditional rivals. But the problem is that deep down you just did not believe neither in your mind nor in its appeal. And you have to decide precisely this issue, and the man has got nothing to do with it.

Jealousy deepen the wounds of Varied types and forms of jealousy can show us their weaknesses. In jealousy of the past can be detected unrealized ambitions (his first wife earned more), to children — the desire to be a mother, to friends — the need for a wider circle of communication, lack of joy. In this case, you probably don't get jealous man, and compete with him. And this is not from the realm of romantic relationships.

Jealousy is demeaning For a loved one want to be the best, but what if it's not you. If the partner is dissatisfied with his present situation, he can seek solace in memories of a better past or hopes for the future. In this case, to fully participate in your relationship he simply is not able. It is unpleasant and annoying. But be jealous of it.

Jealousy relieve This feeling, we can more or less legally terminate the relationship as a whole we are not satisfied. If you wish, you can be jealous of a Saint and innocent, if you want to fool yourself and legally leave the hopeless relationship. Actually jealousy is not so dangerous to real love. Because we will always find a way to tell your beloved about your crazy suspicions, so he took it as passion, not as a rebuke. Or drag the blanket over to their side at the first sign of danger so nothing to spoil. And if you really really want this.published

Source: domashniy.ru/