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10 types of 30-year-old bachelors
Tim urban has decoded all the most common types are 30-year-old bachelors. Know who you are dealing with! 30-year-old men can be incredibly different. Show me a few 30-year-old men in one place, and I will find eternal boy living in a Dorm, family man who has just carried two children to school, a few workaholics and a couple of those who have not yet found your path in life, and odd jobs. Some of them will tell you that he is happy because he finally knows what to live, and someone that he had never felt so helpless. In General, this is a pretty diverse company. But more colorful and varied – increasing in the size group 30-year-old bachelors.
If you want to study humanity, you should look to 30-year-old bachelors. Among them you will probably find all personality types and all social groups.
But the most common is perhaps the following:
Ideal
This 30-year-old bachelor is smart – he graduated from the prestigious University. He was an athlete, musician and traveler. Most likely, he is handsome, Yes, and well educated. To 30 years before him opened a bright career prospects, but gods forbid you to think that he's a workaholic – because he since the childhood instilled family values. The only thing he is lacking is women worthy of such an ideal. Yes, a woman worthy of this man, must be the same ideal as himself – the icing on a magnificent cake of perfection. He often imagines – the beauty attracts admiring glances, smart and elegant, the perfect companion, the rising star of the career ladder and the soul of the company.
And it's just what it happens in public – houses it is still a fantastic lover, an incredible cook, and loving wife, ready to give herself to him only. Oh, and she speaks French, plays tennis, sings beautifully, reads voraciously intellectual books and watching art-house films. His Juliet. In General, what is our "ideal" still single, we were not surprised. And right now he's torn between his desire to go and find the friend corresponding to the superhuman standards, and fear to remain a bachelor, and 40 – because it does not fit into the ideal. No.
Aspiring life anew
The loner until recently met with a familiar friend that I knew almost from kindergarten. Not that she was the love of his life, but everyone believed that sooner or later they will get married. And now, after a long and difficult breakup, he suddenly realizes that those relationships its just chilling, and indulges in all serious. He had almost forgotten what it's like to be without permanent couple, but love it, and he definitely will try this evening to pick up someone at a bar. And he – the worst enemy of the Resigned fiance, who were and are in the same faded personal relationships, but not finding in themselves the spirit of their breaking adrift... and hates stories of starting life anew on their latest adventures.
The one who must marry the "right" girl, or his parents will just stop to talk to him
To find the one that will agree to link their fate with ours, and so it is not too easy, and only intervene when the parents of this poor man... No, once he even tried to rebel, but after his last girlfriend's parents were not allowed even on the threshold, bringing her to tears, he gave up and surrendered. But secretly he still dreams that his mother stopped trying to set him up with daughters of her friends.
Misogynist
A misogynist hates women, and they are not in awe of him. To be honest, he's not even trying to understand them, but remembers and proudly tells you that already slept with 214 of them. He was quite unlucky in my youth, when a naive girl falling for a handsome goats, but in recent times, to be in that bed, you need to be a woman with a very, very low self-esteem. Brother in spirit of a woman Hater Is a Lying dog. They are certainly not identical, but perfectly understand each other.
The guy who too early got a taste
Once, in high school, he was all about what could only dream of the enthusiastic 17-year-old schoolgirl. It soars to the heavens conceit has successfully carried it on their wings through school and College, and no one was surprised when, already to the 20 years it has converged to a smart, kind and beautiful girl. But... he just started liking it more and more, it seemed to him that he has not played enough, and so by 24 he broke up with her. Now, six or seven years later, his hair is tired of his excesses, and too left him, his belly began to fall over the belt, and the people around have long ceased to talk about his school work. Moreover, girls like that, which once was in love with him, definitely disappointed in him. And when it comes to him (five years later than others), he, deeply sighing, lowered her standards in finding a life partner on several large divisions.
The guy who finally became eligible bachelor
And that is the complete opposite of the previous type. In recent times, dropping excess weight, starting to dress in suits, not jeans with a t-shirt, and after securing a prestigious job, he began to get a lot more attention from women than in the last 25 years. Girls find it very nice that such a great guy managed to stay so modest and unobtrusive, although in reality it just feels that every girl is at it once again and will not look. However, when he still reach his current situation, he almost certainly becomes the subject of envy and irritation of his not so lucky friends, winking at them while dancing with a beautiful girl, or triumphantly smiling while walking with her down the street.
A normal guy who just hasn't met the right girl and would like that others stopped to look at him with dazed eyes
He, in General, enjoy your life. He likes his job, he's got great friends, and he likes the bachelor life. He never wants to get anyone into her bed, and sure enough, sooner or later you meet a girl you want to marry. And he absolutely does not understand why all his friends and acquaintances trying to figure out "What's wrong with him". His parents don't find yourself full of anxiety, constantly asking him if it was at least with someone. His friends, wanting to help him, constantly trying to give him a date. He certainly appreciates all this unsolicited support, but believes that it would be much better if it were just left alone.
A former playboy, who can't understand why he's not married yet
He is the absolute opposite of the previous type, and he really can't understand why he's not married yet. After all, in school and in College, and early adult life, he has never been without a girl, and for years, felt sorry for friends with no existing personal life... but somehow, 30 years it remained idle. And now he has account in four different systems of Dating, and when asked if it was with someone he constantly ugovarivaya that is too busy with his work.
The guy who "is not in the game"
Outwardly, he may seem like the perfect suitor – he was handsome, well dressed, works in a reputed firm... He is intelligent, eloquent and charming. The only "but" — it is as if softer to tell it, not interested in girls. Its opposite is a Normal guy who just hasn't met the right girl, and who was tired of explaining to everyone around that he is not gay, 100% heterosexual, just haven't met the right girl and sees nothing wrong with the bachelor life.
The guy just lowered his hands
Honestly, the Guy just lowered his hands, never made to search for a pair is too much effort, but at least before he was made. Or pretended that making. He doesn't like going to bars, wary of finding pairs with a network system of acquaintances, and after he once again refused the friend that he had the courage to ask out (that way four months ago), he returned to the evenings spent at the computer or console. Deep down he is afraid of much, but his fear manifests itself either in denial or passivity, and, as a rule, passivity prevails. And to pull out of his hole only one female character – the Girl who gets her steadily. If he's lucky to meet her on the way. published
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If you want to study humanity, you should look to 30-year-old bachelors. Among them you will probably find all personality types and all social groups.
But the most common is perhaps the following:
Ideal
This 30-year-old bachelor is smart – he graduated from the prestigious University. He was an athlete, musician and traveler. Most likely, he is handsome, Yes, and well educated. To 30 years before him opened a bright career prospects, but gods forbid you to think that he's a workaholic – because he since the childhood instilled family values. The only thing he is lacking is women worthy of such an ideal. Yes, a woman worthy of this man, must be the same ideal as himself – the icing on a magnificent cake of perfection. He often imagines – the beauty attracts admiring glances, smart and elegant, the perfect companion, the rising star of the career ladder and the soul of the company.
And it's just what it happens in public – houses it is still a fantastic lover, an incredible cook, and loving wife, ready to give herself to him only. Oh, and she speaks French, plays tennis, sings beautifully, reads voraciously intellectual books and watching art-house films. His Juliet. In General, what is our "ideal" still single, we were not surprised. And right now he's torn between his desire to go and find the friend corresponding to the superhuman standards, and fear to remain a bachelor, and 40 – because it does not fit into the ideal. No.
Aspiring life anew
The loner until recently met with a familiar friend that I knew almost from kindergarten. Not that she was the love of his life, but everyone believed that sooner or later they will get married. And now, after a long and difficult breakup, he suddenly realizes that those relationships its just chilling, and indulges in all serious. He had almost forgotten what it's like to be without permanent couple, but love it, and he definitely will try this evening to pick up someone at a bar. And he – the worst enemy of the Resigned fiance, who were and are in the same faded personal relationships, but not finding in themselves the spirit of their breaking adrift... and hates stories of starting life anew on their latest adventures.
The one who must marry the "right" girl, or his parents will just stop to talk to him
To find the one that will agree to link their fate with ours, and so it is not too easy, and only intervene when the parents of this poor man... No, once he even tried to rebel, but after his last girlfriend's parents were not allowed even on the threshold, bringing her to tears, he gave up and surrendered. But secretly he still dreams that his mother stopped trying to set him up with daughters of her friends.
Misogynist
A misogynist hates women, and they are not in awe of him. To be honest, he's not even trying to understand them, but remembers and proudly tells you that already slept with 214 of them. He was quite unlucky in my youth, when a naive girl falling for a handsome goats, but in recent times, to be in that bed, you need to be a woman with a very, very low self-esteem. Brother in spirit of a woman Hater Is a Lying dog. They are certainly not identical, but perfectly understand each other.
The guy who too early got a taste
Once, in high school, he was all about what could only dream of the enthusiastic 17-year-old schoolgirl. It soars to the heavens conceit has successfully carried it on their wings through school and College, and no one was surprised when, already to the 20 years it has converged to a smart, kind and beautiful girl. But... he just started liking it more and more, it seemed to him that he has not played enough, and so by 24 he broke up with her. Now, six or seven years later, his hair is tired of his excesses, and too left him, his belly began to fall over the belt, and the people around have long ceased to talk about his school work. Moreover, girls like that, which once was in love with him, definitely disappointed in him. And when it comes to him (five years later than others), he, deeply sighing, lowered her standards in finding a life partner on several large divisions.
The guy who finally became eligible bachelor
And that is the complete opposite of the previous type. In recent times, dropping excess weight, starting to dress in suits, not jeans with a t-shirt, and after securing a prestigious job, he began to get a lot more attention from women than in the last 25 years. Girls find it very nice that such a great guy managed to stay so modest and unobtrusive, although in reality it just feels that every girl is at it once again and will not look. However, when he still reach his current situation, he almost certainly becomes the subject of envy and irritation of his not so lucky friends, winking at them while dancing with a beautiful girl, or triumphantly smiling while walking with her down the street.
A normal guy who just hasn't met the right girl and would like that others stopped to look at him with dazed eyes
He, in General, enjoy your life. He likes his job, he's got great friends, and he likes the bachelor life. He never wants to get anyone into her bed, and sure enough, sooner or later you meet a girl you want to marry. And he absolutely does not understand why all his friends and acquaintances trying to figure out "What's wrong with him". His parents don't find yourself full of anxiety, constantly asking him if it was at least with someone. His friends, wanting to help him, constantly trying to give him a date. He certainly appreciates all this unsolicited support, but believes that it would be much better if it were just left alone.
A former playboy, who can't understand why he's not married yet
He is the absolute opposite of the previous type, and he really can't understand why he's not married yet. After all, in school and in College, and early adult life, he has never been without a girl, and for years, felt sorry for friends with no existing personal life... but somehow, 30 years it remained idle. And now he has account in four different systems of Dating, and when asked if it was with someone he constantly ugovarivaya that is too busy with his work.
The guy who "is not in the game"
Outwardly, he may seem like the perfect suitor – he was handsome, well dressed, works in a reputed firm... He is intelligent, eloquent and charming. The only "but" — it is as if softer to tell it, not interested in girls. Its opposite is a Normal guy who just hasn't met the right girl, and who was tired of explaining to everyone around that he is not gay, 100% heterosexual, just haven't met the right girl and sees nothing wrong with the bachelor life.
The guy just lowered his hands
Honestly, the Guy just lowered his hands, never made to search for a pair is too much effort, but at least before he was made. Or pretended that making. He doesn't like going to bars, wary of finding pairs with a network system of acquaintances, and after he once again refused the friend that he had the courage to ask out (that way four months ago), he returned to the evenings spent at the computer or console. Deep down he is afraid of much, but his fear manifests itself either in denial or passivity, and, as a rule, passivity prevails. And to pull out of his hole only one female character – the Girl who gets her steadily. If he's lucky to meet her on the way. published
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Source: /users/1077
