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Why do women hate women?
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Who will be the first to see hair grown after hair removal? Girlfriend!
Who will conclude that you did not lose weight, but rather gained weight after vacation? A colleague at work!
Who will be the first to remind you that your biological clock is ticking and you are in danger of suffering alone in retirement? That's right, Mom!
Such linguistic terrorism on the part of “our”, that is, women, flourishes with such a lush color that it would be time to take away this wonderful epithet for self-hatred from the fair sex. How do we end this once and for all and realize that through humiliating comments about other women, we are insulting ourselves in their face? We have compiled a list of phrases that no self-respecting woman will say to another woman.
“Give him another chance, a wise woman must be able to forgive.” For example, if your mother brought you up in an atmosphere of religious forgiveness and low-worship before men, that is, other mothers who explained to their daughters that the main thing in relationships is mutual comfort and respect, which very often are not combined with treason, or permanent parasitism, or even with “failures” in bed. And in general, since when does the shape of the genital organs justify the fact that the “pesticians” can do everything, and the “tyens” should be kept silent?
“I think it’s time for you to get married, move in, buy a car, because you’ve been together so long!” ? Who ever told you that all happy couples have to live together, put a stamp on your passport and buy a family car? Did you watch that kind of idyll in the mayonnaise commercial or in the advertising of this family car? Think about it, because maybe people are so good: to arrange dates outside the house, to have time to get bored and do personal things, ride bicycles and not make plans for the future, not to hope to die in one day, but to be happy today.
“I see you have a mustache over your upper lip / pimple over your eyebrow / wrinkle under your eye ... ? In women, against the background of the spread of glossy standards, it would be time to state a new disease – acute denial of imperfection. Photoshopped and smooth as a glazed donut, Kim Kardashian still did his dirty work: natural and quite natural phenomena in appearance are now perceived as a disaster. Unsubscribe from Instagram models and look around: everyone, except the stupid chickens who “live” in beauty salons, is not perfect and no one has ever died from it.
“I am sure you will make a good mother! ? In 20% of cases, it sounds like a funny compliment, in 80% – as a reminder that some clock is ticking, and you do not think about the children. Before you say such a thing to the one who has not become a mother, think about the fact that motherhood is a difficult and responsible choice and the reasons that make you not take this step, every woman has her own and she is not obliged to disclose them. Oh, yes, and you, counselor, would make a great fortune teller, why don’t you make extra money on this?!
“Your husband/boyfriend/child needs more affection and support, you’re not paying attention to him at all! ? Maybe it’s because I work ten hours a day, and I’m also preparing for a triathlon, seeing my girlfriends, shopping for the shower, visiting my parents, and at the end of the day just breathing fresh air, because even if I have a partner or a child, I’m still a full-fledged and self-centered person. How, by the way, are you, the advisers, on this front?
“One day you will definitely meet him!” Of course, I only dream about when this beautiful day will come and he will cut me in his luxury BMW, and then take me to a restaurant as an apology and exactly a month later fall on one knee with the ring. And the most insulting thing is that this phrase with a pejorative connotation in speech is always pronounced by those who allegedly have already met their own, even if this one is a lazy fat slacker and whiner. If you want to repeat the script, then it is better that such a “prince” never comes.
“Every woman should be able to cook, I don’t understand how you even live on Earth?” ? Well, then every man should be able to hunt a boar and chop wood, but not all know how. Think, after all, we no longer live in villages, where the housewife took care of the food of the family, and there were no restaurants and ready meals in sight. Cooking is no longer a vital skill, and it certainly can’t be more “feminine” than male, because we eat three times a day the same.
“This is not a woman's job! Before you say this, think for a second what exactly makes this job “unfeminine”: the fact that it is too responsible, time-consuming and profitable (like being a big boss), or the fact that you have to discover something new (like the toilet building) and get your nails dirty? In the first case, you will agree that discrimination already sounds stupid and the story of the boss Katerina from “Moscow does not believe in tears” is already 36 years old, and in the second – your statement sounds disrespectful, because if a woman has no other option, then someone must do this work.
“He's acting hysterical! ? We remind you that in the Russian language there are still three genders - female, male and middle. So, it will be correct “He behaves like a tantrum” and nothing more, otherwise you attribute an uncontrollable surge of emotions and unreasonable suffering exclusively to women and generalize such a factor common to both sexes as an unstable psyche by gender. Anti-compliments like “behaving like a woman”, “shame like a virgin” and all this kind of stuff for the same reason should be abandoned and start calling things in their own words, and not ascribe all mortal sins to women, as if we still live in the Middle Ages. published
Author: Irina Shchapova
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
Join us on Facebook, VKontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: mag.love-sl.ru/stil-zhizni/02-09-2015-zhenskaya-nesolidarnost-ili-pochemu-zhenshhiny-nenavidyat-zhenshhin.html
Who will conclude that you did not lose weight, but rather gained weight after vacation? A colleague at work!
Who will be the first to remind you that your biological clock is ticking and you are in danger of suffering alone in retirement? That's right, Mom!
Such linguistic terrorism on the part of “our”, that is, women, flourishes with such a lush color that it would be time to take away this wonderful epithet for self-hatred from the fair sex. How do we end this once and for all and realize that through humiliating comments about other women, we are insulting ourselves in their face? We have compiled a list of phrases that no self-respecting woman will say to another woman.
“Give him another chance, a wise woman must be able to forgive.” For example, if your mother brought you up in an atmosphere of religious forgiveness and low-worship before men, that is, other mothers who explained to their daughters that the main thing in relationships is mutual comfort and respect, which very often are not combined with treason, or permanent parasitism, or even with “failures” in bed. And in general, since when does the shape of the genital organs justify the fact that the “pesticians” can do everything, and the “tyens” should be kept silent?
“I think it’s time for you to get married, move in, buy a car, because you’ve been together so long!” ? Who ever told you that all happy couples have to live together, put a stamp on your passport and buy a family car? Did you watch that kind of idyll in the mayonnaise commercial or in the advertising of this family car? Think about it, because maybe people are so good: to arrange dates outside the house, to have time to get bored and do personal things, ride bicycles and not make plans for the future, not to hope to die in one day, but to be happy today.
“I see you have a mustache over your upper lip / pimple over your eyebrow / wrinkle under your eye ... ? In women, against the background of the spread of glossy standards, it would be time to state a new disease – acute denial of imperfection. Photoshopped and smooth as a glazed donut, Kim Kardashian still did his dirty work: natural and quite natural phenomena in appearance are now perceived as a disaster. Unsubscribe from Instagram models and look around: everyone, except the stupid chickens who “live” in beauty salons, is not perfect and no one has ever died from it.
“I am sure you will make a good mother! ? In 20% of cases, it sounds like a funny compliment, in 80% – as a reminder that some clock is ticking, and you do not think about the children. Before you say such a thing to the one who has not become a mother, think about the fact that motherhood is a difficult and responsible choice and the reasons that make you not take this step, every woman has her own and she is not obliged to disclose them. Oh, yes, and you, counselor, would make a great fortune teller, why don’t you make extra money on this?!
“Your husband/boyfriend/child needs more affection and support, you’re not paying attention to him at all! ? Maybe it’s because I work ten hours a day, and I’m also preparing for a triathlon, seeing my girlfriends, shopping for the shower, visiting my parents, and at the end of the day just breathing fresh air, because even if I have a partner or a child, I’m still a full-fledged and self-centered person. How, by the way, are you, the advisers, on this front?
“One day you will definitely meet him!” Of course, I only dream about when this beautiful day will come and he will cut me in his luxury BMW, and then take me to a restaurant as an apology and exactly a month later fall on one knee with the ring. And the most insulting thing is that this phrase with a pejorative connotation in speech is always pronounced by those who allegedly have already met their own, even if this one is a lazy fat slacker and whiner. If you want to repeat the script, then it is better that such a “prince” never comes.
“Every woman should be able to cook, I don’t understand how you even live on Earth?” ? Well, then every man should be able to hunt a boar and chop wood, but not all know how. Think, after all, we no longer live in villages, where the housewife took care of the food of the family, and there were no restaurants and ready meals in sight. Cooking is no longer a vital skill, and it certainly can’t be more “feminine” than male, because we eat three times a day the same.
“This is not a woman's job! Before you say this, think for a second what exactly makes this job “unfeminine”: the fact that it is too responsible, time-consuming and profitable (like being a big boss), or the fact that you have to discover something new (like the toilet building) and get your nails dirty? In the first case, you will agree that discrimination already sounds stupid and the story of the boss Katerina from “Moscow does not believe in tears” is already 36 years old, and in the second – your statement sounds disrespectful, because if a woman has no other option, then someone must do this work.
“He's acting hysterical! ? We remind you that in the Russian language there are still three genders - female, male and middle. So, it will be correct “He behaves like a tantrum” and nothing more, otherwise you attribute an uncontrollable surge of emotions and unreasonable suffering exclusively to women and generalize such a factor common to both sexes as an unstable psyche by gender. Anti-compliments like “behaving like a woman”, “shame like a virgin” and all this kind of stuff for the same reason should be abandoned and start calling things in their own words, and not ascribe all mortal sins to women, as if we still live in the Middle Ages. published
Author: Irina Shchapova
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
Join us on Facebook, VKontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: mag.love-sl.ru/stil-zhizni/02-09-2015-zhenskaya-nesolidarnost-ili-pochemu-zhenshhiny-nenavidyat-zhenshhin.html
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