22 things you need to stop to do with myself. Right from that day.

1. Stop spending time with the wrong people.
Life is too short to spend with people squeezing you dry. If someone wants you to be present in his life, he will take care of your comfort. You don't have to fight for a place next to him. Never insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember that real friends are not those who support you when you are on horseback, and those who remain there when your bad deeds.

2. Stop running from your problems.
Meet them face to face. No, it will not be easy. In the world there is no being capable of flawlessly handling every punch. We don't need to instantly solve all problems. We just arranged differently. The norm for us to be upset, hurt, sad, stumble and fall. This is the meaning of life is to face problems, learn, adapt, and eventually to solve them. This is what makes us human.

3. Stop lying to ourselves.
You can do it with anyone but not with him. Our life can improve only when we allow ourselves to risk, and the first, most difficult risk we take is to be honest with ourselves.

4. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner.
Most painful thing is losing yourself investing too much into loving someone else and forgetting about their own importance. No, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and to do what is really important to you, then this is it.

5. Don't try to be someone else.
One of the most difficult tasks in life is to be yourself in a world that tries to make you like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger but they will never be you. Don't try to change yourself for others to enjoy. Be yourself and those who you really want and will love you as you are.

6. Stop holding on to the past.
You will not be able to start a new Chapter of your life while you keep re-reading the previous one.

7. Stop to be afraid of mistakes.
Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it and every failure is leading towards success. In the end, much more you'll regret the things you did, not what he did.

8. Stop berating yourself for past mistakes.
We may love the wrong person and mourn their mistakes, but even if everything goes wrong, one thing is for sure: mistakes help us find the right people and the right things. We all err, struggles, and even regret things in our past mistakes. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you — here and now — have the power to shape your day and your future. Whatever happens in your life is preparing you for one more step into the future.

9. Stop trying to buy happiness.
Much of what we desire are expensive. But the truth is that the things that really make us happy — love, laughter and working on your feelings — absolutely free.

10. Stop looking for someone to be happy.
If you are unhappy with yourself, your personality, and a long-term relationship with someone will not make you happier. You have to create stability in your life before sharing it with someone else.

11. Enough yapping.
Don't hesitate too long or you will create problems even where they were not. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to resist. Any progress involves risk. And here is an important sequence. You will not be able to read without knowing the letters.

12. Stop thinking that you are not ready.
No one ever feels ready for anything for 100%. Most great opportunities in life force us to go beyond our comfort zones, which means we will be inconvenienced.

13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons.
Relationships need to build wisely. Better to be alone than in bad company. No need to rush. If something is meant to happen it will happen at the right time with the right person and for the best reason. Fall in love when you're ready, not when you're lonely.

14. Stop to abandon a new relationship just because old ones didn't work out.
Everyone, whomever you meet, have their own goals. Someone will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.

15. Stop competing with everyone.
Don't worry about what others in something more successful you. Concentrate on achieving their own daily records. Success is fight between YOU and YOURSELF.

16. Stop envy.
Envy is the art of counting someone else's blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself: "What do I have that everyone wants?"

17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for myself.
Life throws dice in order to move you in some important direction. You may not see or understand what is happening, and it can be painful. But look at those bad hands that dropped you in the past. You'll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind or situation. Smile! Let everyone know that today you are lot stronger than you were yesterday.

18. Stop embitter resentment.
- Don't live your life with hate in your heart. In the end you hurt yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness does not mean "I like everything that you did to me". It says: "I'm not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever." Forgiveness is the answer ... let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember that we should forgive not only other people but ourselves. If necessary, forgive yourself and move on to try the next time to do better.

19. Stop letting others bring you down to their level.
No need to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.

20. Stop wasting time explaining.
Your friends don't need it and your enemies won't believe you anyway. Just do as you really think it's right.

21. Stop running in circles.
It's time to take a deep breath is when you don't have time for this. While you continue doing what you're doing, you'll get what you get. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things in a true light.

22. Stop to neglect the little things.
- Enjoy the little things because one day you may look back and discover that it was a great thing. The best part of your life consists of minor nameless moments you spend on something to give a smile to a person who for you is really important.


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