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When he loves you more than you
It's perfect. You say it all the time. He's amazing. You don't know what you'd do without him. He loves you, unconditionally. Blindly.
The problem with those who blindly loves you, that they can't tell when your relationship is not working.
Your attachment does not match, not harmony. Have you noticed that almost immediately, but allowed to drift, unconsciously. You begin to irritate the little things, but you try to ignore them. But then you realize that when you are annoyed by little things, is the result of more serious problems.
You'll want to wear headphones in order to hear him speak, or as silent as he fidgets in his chair as he mumbles something under his breath as loudly turning the pages or Champs.
You will begin a quarrel, knowing that you're a priori wrong, because nothing to fight. But you're still going and can't stop yourself, even once, he will do what you want, and what is required. You're still going to be offended, to withdraw, to be silent, to turn away from him at night. And still don't know why.
The irrationality of your actions will be too obvious, and even your own behavior you will have to annoy. You'll remind yourself how lucky you are to meet him. Then begin to say that he's perfect, and you're not.
You'll get drunk without him. Will meet someone in the cafe-flirt. You don't go too far, but the temptation will make you feel guilty. You catch yourself thinking that he deserves better, that you can't give him that. And again drink.
You want to stay, because all he needs for happiness is that you not go. And you want to make him happy. It would be very easy, because you just have to pretend that all these thoughts there, and that you're with the perfect person.
But you realize that you have to be the one to ruin everything that go. And it makes you feel bad. You know that in his eyes you're the one who walked away without looking back. The one that hurt him. The one that supposedly won, not lost. But you don't want to be a winner. Because you left without looking back because she could not look him in the eye, because it would have you quite killed.
In the end you'll leave. You go because he deserves someone who will understand how he is amazing and will love him like you never could. As you wanted, but couldn't.
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
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The problem with those who blindly loves you, that they can't tell when your relationship is not working.
Your attachment does not match, not harmony. Have you noticed that almost immediately, but allowed to drift, unconsciously. You begin to irritate the little things, but you try to ignore them. But then you realize that when you are annoyed by little things, is the result of more serious problems.
You'll want to wear headphones in order to hear him speak, or as silent as he fidgets in his chair as he mumbles something under his breath as loudly turning the pages or Champs.
You will begin a quarrel, knowing that you're a priori wrong, because nothing to fight. But you're still going and can't stop yourself, even once, he will do what you want, and what is required. You're still going to be offended, to withdraw, to be silent, to turn away from him at night. And still don't know why.
The irrationality of your actions will be too obvious, and even your own behavior you will have to annoy. You'll remind yourself how lucky you are to meet him. Then begin to say that he's perfect, and you're not.
You'll get drunk without him. Will meet someone in the cafe-flirt. You don't go too far, but the temptation will make you feel guilty. You catch yourself thinking that he deserves better, that you can't give him that. And again drink.
You want to stay, because all he needs for happiness is that you not go. And you want to make him happy. It would be very easy, because you just have to pretend that all these thoughts there, and that you're with the perfect person.
But you realize that you have to be the one to ruin everything that go. And it makes you feel bad. You know that in his eyes you're the one who walked away without looking back. The one that hurt him. The one that supposedly won, not lost. But you don't want to be a winner. Because you left without looking back because she could not look him in the eye, because it would have you quite killed.
In the end you'll leave. You go because he deserves someone who will understand how he is amazing and will love him like you never could. As you wanted, but couldn't.
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Join us in Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: www.soulpost.ru/kogda-on-lyubit-tebya-bolshe-chem-ty-ego/
