Why not take away someone else's husband - 5 good reasons Bashny.Net

Traditionally it is considered that an affair with a married man - bad. I will not condemn anyone, but simply call the reasons why this can be bad for you personally and for your relationship in the future, if you still will be able to withdraw it.

Reason number 1.

If you are not sure of her feelings for him, or if you're doing it just to improve their financial situation, without wasting time.

Because men are like children, great feel insincere intentions and catch.

Because, even if you manage to do it for mercenary reasons, he will secure himself so that after the divorce, you will get nothing.

And because after you get it in "possession", you will lose interest in him, and to live without loving, pretending to be a lifetime can not. And he felt betrayed, hate you with all my heart, will blame you for the fact that he left his wife (which is still, somehow, but loved), and in this case you will remain alone, again, without all and lost a few years of his life. You'll have to come back again to look for her only.




So think thrice if you do not like, do not even start

. Reason number 2.

Family life is first of all - love and patience. Because if you believe many psychologists, psychoanalysts and simple observations of life, passion lives two years. And after this can be a good and regular .... can be a deep sense of respect and can be. But not crazy all-consuming passion. And, of course, is life. Even if you all will be well, sooner or later you will still run into everyday life. Perhaps you will be more attentive than his previous wife, perhaps you'll be more careful, but think about it, it is reliable man who enjoyed the passion of one woman who is looking for a new passion on the side? And you will not get if you place on that same wife after five years of marriage, you want to change to a new princess? Of course, everything depends on the individual and the situation, but at least ask yourself this question.

Reason number 3.

Very often it happens that in the competition, people can not really evaluate the object of his adoration sober. This is the last thing on the counter, which want to buy just two people. And it seems a bit worn, and a scratch here, but because "if I do not, it will take here this blond chicken", we are willing to buy, and very pleased! But when he got home and thoroughly considered, you think, where I was looking, when it bought? Likewise with the man. While he is not yours - do you want it more than anyone else in the world. It seems to you most - most, it seems to you to your man, and even pure gold, one in a billion people on the planet. But when you finally get it in his "possession", you can suddenly see that the shortcomings in it abound, and perhaps his wife was not so obsessed with the devil bitch, and that he, too, is not a gift.

Reason number 4.

Knowing how brilliantly he could lie to his wife about where he is doing (in fact, being with you), you can start to go crazy with jealousy. For example, it tells you that is delayed at work, and you remember that this is what he rubbed his wife, when you are with him in the car in the parking lot .... And away we go. Jealousy can capture you in its sticky and strong hug, and then shake your relationship strong. You may even be a very big problem with confidence (from your side) just because you know from experience how this man could be two-faced. And even on an empty place in your head will be born such pictures that no psychologist you will not understand.

Reason number 5.

You are young, and youth - a perishable product. Better Spend time and energy to search for another suitable man you than something to get him away from the family. Believe me, it takes a lot of energy, nerves, patience and all, this race for a long distance. It will not happen quickly and painlessly. So at the very beginning is to assess - and has it all even a minimal chance of success? And may the force be better spent on the search for another man?

Author: Olga Kraynova