It is not necessary to save the relationship: 7 ways to deliberately flops Bashny.Net

At first, you were a butterfly, and a dizzying sex, sweet and Self, and then something went wrong.

Throw acquired by back-breaking toil somehow pity you, roll up their sleeves, off to save your love.

Usually - some of these methods. Throw kaku, it will not help!




Live separately

Let's part for fun, get bored and throw each other's arms. And if you do not get bored? If - which is expected - will feel relieved that you can do what you want, and do not expect every minute another thunderstorm

? Besides patrol inevitably drawn into your story has a bunch of strangers - friends and family, and they all want to express their opinion. For example, "Well, finally, and he did not like me at once».

Getting jealous

Pull out the old granaries admirer that he povozdyhal in front of the partner, and reminded him, scoundrel that you hoo and demand - is very, very bad idea. You and so everything goes to pieces, and then there was such a stress.

Jealousy can make a muck of even the most vanilla love story, and if everything is bad - it will leave behind a scorched desert. Or people will sigh with relief - thank heaven, you seem to have a way to go, well, goodbye

. Involve third parties

Remember, the school honors and being good children tucked to the bullies that they have benefited from? So what worked? Ask the family, friends and acquaintances to talk with your partner and put him on the right path - a failing idea that only pumps irritation

. Go to a psychologist - a

And then bombard man wise maxims Prohorovna Mary, in the heat of an argument out of his pocket a trump card: "But Mary Prohorovna says it is you childhood trauma and passive aggressive!". If a couple of weeks he does not want to strangle Maria Prohorovna and the one who came up with all analysts - he is a holy man. Or quietly work on yourself or go for help alone.

Talk frankly

To express all that is boiling - at first glance, not a bad idea. But this only works when both agree that it is time to sit at the negotiating table and did not tear at each other's face. In other cases, attempts to talk turned into a scandal - well, how else to draw the attention of the one who ignores your sorrow

? You recall each other sins, starting from the second date, to split a couple of cups of soul porevete and conciliatory prefer sex on the kitchen table. But when the euphoria of catharsis roll back, it turns out that the problems have not gone away, and to improve mood need another scandal.



Escape to the edge of the world

Only you, he and a suitcase, and all around - New York, for example, or Cambodia, or some of Florence. Romantic journey necessarily all will adjust and you will return from his careless and passionate.

In fact, the change of the situation - the more stress. You are taken out of the usual routine, you need to decide on a daily basis - where to eat, how to get, how to say in the local "two donut and soda" that are going to look - Cathedral or shopping center. And nowhere to go - you're together 24/7, not to run away to work, do not leave the kitchen. Many couples after such holidays differ even in a taxi from the airport.

Have a baby

Children, especially while they are small - it's a huge, huge work. That requires equal participation of both parties. The ability to negotiate, to compromise and sacrifice their interests. This long-term project - that is, for a lifetime. And complete madness - expose the flimsy relationship such overloads. Yes, a good chance that now no one will go nowhere. So it'll drudge up rebenkinogo age. And then he will deal with the years of childhood injuries from what mom and dad on the spirit could not endure each other.

Author: Olga Lysenko