Psychologists have named seven stages of love - of love through hatred of sincere feelings

1. Love. The first phase lasts a year and a half. People see a partner in the most attractive and good light. Excellent appearance, pleasant character, attention and kisses. Ideally. It is in the love between writing novels and poems. On this remarkable period of shoot films and sing songs.

2. Satiety. When people begin to live together or else spend much much time beside the passions umenbshaetsya, loved one staёt something ordinary, commonplace. Lovers saturated with each other.
3. Aversion. The third stage - the whole test for the future of love. Rose-colored glasses are in the side, wildly growing selfishness. Love has passed saturation behind. At this time, become visible shortcomings of the partner, which, as it turned out, quite a lot. Advantages stayut noticeable and cute once eccentricities are now withdrawn from themselves.

4. Humility. The storms have passed. Quarrels happen less often. Staёt clear that imprison man by itself will not work. Getting an understanding that a person lives with you, which is inherent in the negative and positive qualities.

5. Service. In all the previous stages of the good deeds carried for a response. Both spouses doing something nice in their half, consciously or unconsciously waited for retaliatory behavior. During the service I want to make nice just as a person dear to the heart, because the soul is fully ready for this.

6. Friendship. Here already shown respect and understanding. The couple had already been through a lot this pair. Spouses perfectly know the characters, the habits of each other, can come out of this situation without conflict. Both can make a pleasant and useful things.

7. Love. The long-awaited deep feeling comes on time and deservedly so. Understanding perfectly, spiritual unity - that's what it means to love. Before reaching this stage a few. Since you must first learn to humbly and quietly accept the person as he is, free of worry about him, to take his identity.