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What you should not tell people not to hurt their feelings. Otherwise, you will lose your friends!
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Often we do not think about how people might react to this or that phrase, completely forgetting about his feelings. All men think differently! This means that your companion may not perceive completely innocuous phrase. In order not to alienate the people who try to avoid phrases, which are listed below.
What should not talk about someone's appearance
Do not say: «You look tired». em>
Why: This means that the person does not look good.
Say: «You all right?» em>
Do not say: «Wow, you took off a ton kilo!» em>
Why: She may think that before this was not at all attractive.
Say: «You look fantastic!» em>, and you can add «What is your secret?» em>
Do not say: «For his age you look good». em>
Why: It sounds really rough.
Say: «You look great». em>
Do not say: «I would never put a not». em>
Why: This may be perceived as criticism.
Say: «You look good in these jeans!" or "I would never wear such could not, because I do not have your long legs». em>
What is not worth talking a lonely person
Do not say: «You were too good for him». em>
Why: You say that this man has a bad taste.
Say: «It's his loss!» em>
Do not say: «I'm glad you got rid of him, he never liked me». em>
Why: Now she will think that you are deceiving her when her ex before you like.
Say: «I'm sure you'll find someone who you need». em>
Do not say: «How could such a perfect girl still be alone?» em>
Why: It is a backhanded compliment, it may sound like «What's wrong with you?» em>
Say: «You're going out with someone?» em>
What you can not talk about the pregnancy or for children
Do not say: «You're pregnant?» em>
Why: You will be very uncomfortable if you zadash this question, but she is not pregnant. It will be a terrible remark about overweight women.
Say: It is better to just ask, like a man of action.
Do not say: «You're going to breastfeed?» em>
Why: Perhaps your companion does not want to discuss the matter publicly.
Say: If you're not very close, it is better not to ask about it.
What should be avoided in quarrels with her lover or beloved
Do not say: «You always ..." "You never ...». em>
Why: Do not hang tags and do not do your partner guilty of all mortal sins. He will remember.
Say: «I'm upset that you're back ... What can we do to prevent this from happening again?» em>
Do not say: «If you really loved me, you would ...» em>
Why: Do not try to manipulate your partner with such phrases. This is a bad foundation for a good relationship.
Say: «I'd feel better if you ...» em>
Use these phrases not to alienate friends. People love tolerant and sensitive interlocutors.
Tell your friends what phrases are best avoided in conversations.
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What should not talk about someone's appearance
Do not say: «You look tired». em>
Why: This means that the person does not look good.
Say: «You all right?» em>
Do not say: «Wow, you took off a ton kilo!» em>
Why: She may think that before this was not at all attractive.
Say: «You look fantastic!» em>, and you can add «What is your secret?» em>
Do not say: «For his age you look good». em>
Why: It sounds really rough.
Say: «You look great». em>
Do not say: «I would never put a not». em>
Why: This may be perceived as criticism.
Say: «You look good in these jeans!" or "I would never wear such could not, because I do not have your long legs». em>
What is not worth talking a lonely person
Do not say: «You were too good for him». em>
Why: You say that this man has a bad taste.
Say: «It's his loss!» em>
Do not say: «I'm glad you got rid of him, he never liked me». em>
Why: Now she will think that you are deceiving her when her ex before you like.
Say: «I'm sure you'll find someone who you need». em>
Do not say: «How could such a perfect girl still be alone?» em>
Why: It is a backhanded compliment, it may sound like «What's wrong with you?» em>
Say: «You're going out with someone?» em>
What you can not talk about the pregnancy or for children
Do not say: «You're pregnant?» em>
Why: You will be very uncomfortable if you zadash this question, but she is not pregnant. It will be a terrible remark about overweight women.
Say: It is better to just ask, like a man of action.
Do not say: «You're going to breastfeed?» em>
Why: Perhaps your companion does not want to discuss the matter publicly.
Say: If you're not very close, it is better not to ask about it.
What should be avoided in quarrels with her lover or beloved
Do not say: «You always ..." "You never ...». em>
Why: Do not hang tags and do not do your partner guilty of all mortal sins. He will remember.
Say: «I'm upset that you're back ... What can we do to prevent this from happening again?» em>
Do not say: «If you really loved me, you would ...» em>
Why: Do not try to manipulate your partner with such phrases. This is a bad foundation for a good relationship.
Say: «I'd feel better if you ...» em>
Use these phrases not to alienate friends. People love tolerant and sensitive interlocutors.
Tell your friends what phrases are best avoided in conversations.
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