What you should not tell people not to hurt their feelings. Otherwise, you will lose your friends!

Often we do not think about how people might react to this or that phrase, completely forgetting about his feelings. All men think differently! This means that your companion may not perceive completely innocuous phrase. In order not to alienate the people who try to avoid phrases, which are listed below.

What should not talk about someone's appearance
Do not say: «You look tired».
Why: Say: «You all right?»

Do not say: «Wow, you took off a ton kilo!»
Why: Say: «You look fantastic!» , and you can add «What is your secret?»

Do not say: «For his age you look good».
Why: Say: «You look great».

Do not say: «I would never put a not».
Why: Say: «You look good in these jeans!" or "I would never wear such could not, because I do not have your long legs».

What is not worth talking a lonely person
Do not say: «You were too good for him».
Why: Say: «It's his loss!»

Do not say: «I'm glad you got rid of him, he never liked me».
Why: Say: «I'm sure you'll find someone who you need».

Do not say: «How could such a perfect girl still be alone?»
Why: «What's wrong with you?»
Say: «You're going out with someone?»

What you can not talk about the pregnancy or for children
Do not say: «You're pregnant?»
Why: Say:
Do not say: «You're going to breastfeed?»
Why: Say:
What should be avoided in quarrels with her lover or beloved
Do not say: «You always ..." "You never ...».
Why: Say: «I'm upset that you're back ... What can we do to prevent this from happening again?»

Do not say: «If you really loved me, you would ...»
Why: Say: «I'd feel better if you ...»

Use these phrases not to alienate friends. People love tolerant and sensitive interlocutors.

Tell your friends what phrases are best avoided in conversations.

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