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Parable about how to return the warmth and tenderness in relationships
Once a young man asked a wise man: - Why are you so happy in family life? You all respect, you go to for advice. What is your secret?
Once a young man asked a wise man:
- Why are you so happy in family life? You all respect, you go to for advice. What is your secret?
Sage smiled and called his wife. I came into the room beautiful and happy woman:
- Yes, dear!
- Honey, prepare, please dough into the pie.
- All right!
She went out and came twenty minutes later to say that the dough is ready.
- Add to it the best heating oil from our stocks. And all those nuts that we have left for our son's birthday cake.
- Okay.
And again, it came ten minutes later, the husband said:
- Add to our yard and clay. And then baked.
- Well, - said the wife.
And after half an hour it was already in the hands of this strange cake.
- Of course, we will not have it! - Said the husband. - Give it to the pigs in the street.
- Well, - said the wife.
The guest was shocked. Is this possible? Not a single word against it, did all that her husband said. Even when he was offered an absurd thing.
And the man has decided to repeat the experiment at home. When he came back, immediately I hear the laughter of his wife. Together with my friends wife play a board game.
- Wife! - She turned to her man.
- I'm busy! - Exasperated husband shouted from the bedroom.
- Wife!
Ten minutes later she appeared:
- What do you need?
- Put the dough!
- You are crazy! The house is full of food, but I have things to do!
- Put the dough, I said!
Half an hour later his wife irritably said that the dough is ready.
- Add to all the best nuts and melted butter.
- You are crazy! The day after tomorrow my sister's wedding, and these nuts are needed for the cake!
- Do as I say!
The wife put the dough only part of nuts, then again went to her husband.
- Now add the dough clay!
- Do you even have survived from the mind? So much food wasted transferred?
- Add the clay say! And then baked.
An hour later his wife brought the cake and threw it on the table:
- And now I see how you do that there will be!
- And I will not have it - Bring it to pigs!
- You know what, - outraged wife - then he go and feed their pigs!
He slammed the door and went to her room. A few days later, she was laughing at her husband at all telling this story.
Then the guest decided to return to the sage:
- Why? Why do you have all happened and your wife did everything as you said, and rolled my scandal and still laughing at me? - I said he was at the door.
- It's simple. I will not swear to it, and not the team. I defend it, and that makes it quiet. My wife - a pledge of my family well.
- And what am I going to look for another wife?
- This is the easiest way that will lead you to the very sad result. You and your wife have to learn to respect each other. And for this you first have to do everything to make her happy.
- Yes, and so I do everything for her!
- And she's happy? You're married to love each other, care for and rejoice together. Instead swear, share and discuss the primacy of each other ...
The man walked thoughtfully home. Along the way, he saw a beautiful rose bush. That such roses he had once sought her hand. Every day one twig roses. At any time of the year ... when he last gave her these flowers? He could not remember.
He plucked a twig and carried it home. House has all asleep. He did not want to disturb his wife - and just put flowers at her bedside.
On the morning of his first time in recent years, I am waiting for breakfast. And a beautiful wife with shining eyes. He hugged her and kissed her gently, as once many years ago.
He stopped doing unimportant things, began to give more time to his wife and tried to make her happier. His attention and care, tenderness and love augmented by returning to it many times. His wife stopped going home "at random", again began to prepare for his favorite dishes, they have ceased to swear and get by ...
Several years passed and the young man knocked on his door.
- I've heard that your relationship with your wife - a model for others. And I is not so. My wife nags me, spending all the money, do not listen ... What's the secret? I have read many books, but none of them helped me ...
The landlord smiled and said:
- Come in, dear guest. My wife is just about to bake a cake ...
Once a young man asked a wise man:
- Why are you so happy in family life? You all respect, you go to for advice. What is your secret?
Sage smiled and called his wife. I came into the room beautiful and happy woman:
- Yes, dear!
- Honey, prepare, please dough into the pie.
- All right!
She went out and came twenty minutes later to say that the dough is ready.
- Add to it the best heating oil from our stocks. And all those nuts that we have left for our son's birthday cake.
- Okay.
And again, it came ten minutes later, the husband said:
- Add to our yard and clay. And then baked.
- Well, - said the wife.
And after half an hour it was already in the hands of this strange cake.
- Of course, we will not have it! - Said the husband. - Give it to the pigs in the street.
- Well, - said the wife.
The guest was shocked. Is this possible? Not a single word against it, did all that her husband said. Even when he was offered an absurd thing.
And the man has decided to repeat the experiment at home. When he came back, immediately I hear the laughter of his wife. Together with my friends wife play a board game.
- Wife! - She turned to her man.
- I'm busy! - Exasperated husband shouted from the bedroom.
- Wife!
Ten minutes later she appeared:
- What do you need?
- Put the dough!
- You are crazy! The house is full of food, but I have things to do!
- Put the dough, I said!
Half an hour later his wife irritably said that the dough is ready.
- Add to all the best nuts and melted butter.
- You are crazy! The day after tomorrow my sister's wedding, and these nuts are needed for the cake!
- Do as I say!
The wife put the dough only part of nuts, then again went to her husband.
- Now add the dough clay!
- Do you even have survived from the mind? So much food wasted transferred?
- Add the clay say! And then baked.
An hour later his wife brought the cake and threw it on the table:
- And now I see how you do that there will be!
- And I will not have it - Bring it to pigs!
- You know what, - outraged wife - then he go and feed their pigs!
He slammed the door and went to her room. A few days later, she was laughing at her husband at all telling this story.
Then the guest decided to return to the sage:
- Why? Why do you have all happened and your wife did everything as you said, and rolled my scandal and still laughing at me? - I said he was at the door.
- It's simple. I will not swear to it, and not the team. I defend it, and that makes it quiet. My wife - a pledge of my family well.
- And what am I going to look for another wife?
- This is the easiest way that will lead you to the very sad result. You and your wife have to learn to respect each other. And for this you first have to do everything to make her happy.
- Yes, and so I do everything for her!
- And she's happy? You're married to love each other, care for and rejoice together. Instead swear, share and discuss the primacy of each other ...
The man walked thoughtfully home. Along the way, he saw a beautiful rose bush. That such roses he had once sought her hand. Every day one twig roses. At any time of the year ... when he last gave her these flowers? He could not remember.
He plucked a twig and carried it home. House has all asleep. He did not want to disturb his wife - and just put flowers at her bedside.
On the morning of his first time in recent years, I am waiting for breakfast. And a beautiful wife with shining eyes. He hugged her and kissed her gently, as once many years ago.
He stopped doing unimportant things, began to give more time to his wife and tried to make her happier. His attention and care, tenderness and love augmented by returning to it many times. His wife stopped going home "at random", again began to prepare for his favorite dishes, they have ceased to swear and get by ...
Several years passed and the young man knocked on his door.
- I've heard that your relationship with your wife - a model for others. And I is not so. My wife nags me, spending all the money, do not listen ... What's the secret? I have read many books, but none of them helped me ...
The landlord smiled and said:
- Come in, dear guest. My wife is just about to bake a cake ...
