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After that, men will come to meet you.
Have you ever noticed that women are literally draw attentionAnd the others stay in the shadows? In this article, we will look at how internal and external factors affect the perception of you by the men around you and how to use this to your advantage.
1. Energy and confidence
Psychologists have long proved that self-confidence makes a person attractive. This is due to the halo effect, a cognitive distortion in which a positive impression of one quality of a person extends to all others.
- Conscious postureKeep your back straight, relax your shoulders, do not cross your arms.
- Eye contact: A confident look inspires trust and interest.
- Voice.A calm, measured speech sounds attractive.
Nonverbal signals account for 55% of communication (according to Albert Mehrabian). Open gestures and smiles are key factors of attractiveness.
What to consider:
- Do not slouch, do not cover your face with hair.
- Show a genuine smile (called the Duchenne smile).
- Move smoothly, avoiding harsh gestures.
People are attracted to those who create a comfortable atmosphere. Developed emotional intelligence helps to read the mood of the interlocutor and properly build communication.
- Active hearingInterest in your partner makes you more attractive.
- Sense of humorPositive emotions form instant sympathy.
- SincerityMen feel falsehood and push it away.
Studies show that a harmonious combination of clothes, smell and grooming creates a first impression in 7 seconds.
Several recommendations:
- Choose clothes that emphasize your personality.
- Don’t be afraid to add a bright accent (such as a red lipstick or accessory).
- Pay attention to the smell – light perfumes are associated with femininity.
Men are drawn to women who radiate confidence, benevolence and openness. Working on yourself, you will not only attract attention, but also feel happier and more harmonious.
Glossary
- The halo effect The tendency to perceive a person holistically on the basis of one bright quality.
- Duchenne's smile A genuine smile involving the muscles of the eyes.
- Active hearing The skill of attentive perception of information from the interlocutor.
- Emotional intelligence The ability to understand and manage your emotions and those of others.
