I thought that the birth of a daughter would bring me closer to my husband, but it turned out the opposite.

Everyone has such an employee at work. Or there was a classmate at school. Guy or girl in the yard, it doesn't matter. A man who never missed an opportunity to get his hands on. superiority. Whether it’s financial, athletic or scientific achievement. Even height or prettyness – such egoists are familiar to everyone. And to be friends with them or at least to be friends means to always be in second or even third place. To be the eternal second pilot.



In a relationship, in fact, everything is exactly the same. Narcissistic narcissists are ready to talk about their invented impeccability for hours. Imagine what they are capable of, when they have some truth in their words. Woe to him who dares to doubt even for a moment their self-admiration! Resentment, tantrums, anger and anger will immediately follow. That's what character is.

When I got pregnant, Seryozha flatly gave up his fatherly duties. But maybe it could have been understood then. 25 years, a good job, a promising position, far-reaching plans. And here I am with my baby news. Before the wedding, on the beach, we discussed everything. That we do not rush things, accumulate money, experience. And then maybe... But I was scared and needed the support of my husband.

Thank God it all settled down over time. I gave birth to a big, beautiful girl. They called her Victoria. Sergey was also happy, although he had a hard time at that time: he worked hard, was responsible for several projects at once. So I was nervous and irritated. I understood, but now he's a father. Few people think this is an easy walk. So we had to be patient with all of us and try to stay with the last strength.



I thought having a daughter would bring my husband and I closer, but it was actually a little different. Seryozha seemed to think that I owe him now that I decided not to terminate the pregnancy. He did little to help me at home. Only disappeared at work, and on arrival could accuse me of not having time somewhere to clean something or cooked a burnt dish. Unfortunately, such cases were not rare.

And then, when Vika grew up and we began to miss her husband’s salary, I decided to go abroad for a while. Officially, to meet my aunt in Frankfurt. And unofficially - to make some money. Everybody understood, I think. But familiar or just curious distant relatives did not need to know individual details. I think you understand. I don’t want them to be superior to others. My husband stayed on the farm with my daughter, and I studied the language on an accelerated program and collected documents.



But a few days before my departure, my husband invited me to a serious personal conversation. As it turned out, he suggested to me at the time of our separation “to make the scope of our relationship a little wider and then only if the other one of us is not against it.” In other words, carte blanche for treason, physical treason. I won't tell you much about it, but my husband convinced me it was best for both of us, and I finally agreed. Yeah, that's it.

Four years went by pretty quickly. I worked, my daughter grew up. My husband seemed to fall in love with me again. On the video link, he joked a lot, smiled, even flirted with me. Like a different person. No, it's more like Seryozha suddenly got younger and I became interesting to him again. Not the mother of his children, but the girl with whom he had nothing. And he is interested in all her topics for conversation without exception.

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Naturally, I wondered what the terms of our contract were. Did he have a woman or was he in the process? Because, to be honest with you, it was simply impossible not to notice the new style of clothes of his own husband, his fitness and his returned sense of humor. Men don’t change often, especially for the good. And Sergey could be called more conservative. He didn't like change, so his reincarnation was doubly odd.

He said he regretted that such a stupid thought had ever occurred to him. No, he never had any women. There was not enough time, sometimes even for sleep. My daughter is growing up, at work full of worries, but pleasant. My husband, while I was away, was promoted twice. It's not that he's making a lot more money, but in these tough times, any positive news at work is good.



I am now at home with my family and I am very happy. Of course, I did not have time for the gym, as well as physical strength. I admit, it was a lot of work. And I, the eternal housewife, was very difficult to rebuild. But I managed and now I can count on a lot of nice things. First, of course, we'll all go on vacation. Somewhere warm, clean and sunny. Then we will repair it, and maybe we will buy a car. Wait for what? We have one life. You can use your superiority over others.

I’m glad that everything in our family has gone so well. My husband is doing great at work. The daughter pleases with good grades and generally shows herself from the best side. Smart child, my fears about this moment have not come true and it is wonderful. As far as I'm concerned, my two romances on the side shouldn't bother anyone. It was unforgettable and my secret will die with me. But I really needed it.



Funny thing is, Sergey didn't even ask me about my part of the deal. I guess I couldn’t even imagine that this could happen to me. Well, all the better. Marriage is based on mutual trust, right? Well, now I trust my husband, he literally runs around my legs. And he can trust me, too, I took my time off and now I feel better. Some secrets must remain behind the scenes. It will be better for everyone, especially if the fate of our happy and friendly family is at stake.