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I used to pay no attention to my friend’s husband, but one show changed everything.
About that, How a loving man behavesOnly a woman can tell the best. It just so happens that men themselves do not often spread among themselves about their actions. It's not in their nature, and in the evening, in a bar, in friendly company, they're willing to talk about anything but personal matters. Moreover, such topics do not interest them at home. Perhaps that is why in women’s circles there is an opinion about their callousness and verboseness.
Most often, men-talkers do not differ in practical behavior. Yes, there are those who are ready to discuss anything without stopping for a second. But, as practice shows, they often simply cannot boast of any special feats. But to scandalize or muddy someone behind your back is always welcome. The most disliked type of temperament is that of the male or female.
How a loving man behaves Never in my life considered myself a pye girl. On the contrary, since childhood, I have always been reckless, loved noisy companies, adventures. I even fought a couple of times. And when I grew up, my character did not change, so the rhythm of life also continued to be quite dynamic. I've had boyfriends, men. But with each of them, I was honest and didn’t promise to have a strong relationship unless I wanted to.
But now, at 32, I had to settle down for a couple of reasons. The first is, of course, age. Or rather, there was such a moment in my life that, looking at my current state from the outside, I realized that it is simply impossible to live like this. And so comes the second reason for my change, Boris. My man, my life partner, my strong soul mate, whom I cherish very much and will never betray. I know that for sure.
How did we meet Borea? In fact, we've known each other for a long time. But our relationship started only about a year ago. And not under the best of circumstances. My husband used to be married to one of my best friends. I didn’t see it in any romantic way. I didn't even notice him because Vera, my girlfriend, was very close to me, almost like a sister. So I didn't pay any attention to her husband, and why?
But gradually everything began to change, and the cause of these changes was Faith itself. Although I was in a free relationship with one guy and could afford a lot, Vera was in no way inferior to me and, even as a married girl, could easily go to a party in the middle of the working week. She called it a “rest from the family routine” and believed that such antics only strengthened her marriage. And another important point, at that time he and Borey already had a three-year-old son. How do you like that turn?
No, Vera did not cheat, did not walk with other men. In my opinion, she did not want to let go of her youth. I didn’t want to become an adult and lived as before, only for myself. In general, I was not worried about the situation at her house, my husband earned well and was not against sitting with the child once again. So everything seemed normal? But my views changed after one significant incident.
One day, Vera invited me to visit her. I ordered a lot of things from the delivery, I didn't forget the hot one either. Boris was supposed to arrive from a business trip the next morning. And their son was with his grandparents. So we had a pretty good night, like a bachelorette party. And when I had to leave, Vera insisted that I stay with her. Wake up in the morning, I'll leave, and she'll meet her husband. Well, at least that's what I thought. In fact, everything went according to a completely different scenario.
Boris arrived not so much in the morning, but almost at night, without anything six. And as it turned out, Vera was well informed about it. She didn't meet him, she didn't feed him out of the way. But instead, apparently from a hangover, began to make claims. She accused him of having trouble being alone without her husband, so she had to “beg” me to be with her for a while. Of course, there was no food in the refrigerator. Just some of our leftovers. In general, Boris was sent to the store for food for himself. Out of the way, tired and hungry. He didn't even have time to take off his shoes.
And this incident hurt me so much that I somehow stopped treating my friend with the same respect. I saw how her husband just couldn’t say a word to reproach her and only stood sadly and listened to all the nonsense that Vera poured so fiercely on him. After some time, we accidentally crossed paths with him on the street, I offered to talk, gave him some advice on how to behave in such situations, and we became closer as people. And after some time and a few dates have become really close. And I have no regrets. I don’t feel guilty about their divorce.
I didn’t even tell Boris one of the main secrets in the biography of his ex-wife: the fact that she took $2,000 from him for childbirth, and she gave birth in a free maternity ward. I thought I'd save that information in case Vera changed his mind and Borya wanted to give him back. But I didn't. The only thing that bothers me a little is that he is very attached to his child and pays considerable alimony for his comfortable childhood. Some of which, I'm sure, Vera spends on her own needs.
So far, Borea and I haven't legalized our relationship. We live together and we don't know grief. I see in him a loving man, an interesting person, a breadwinner and a gentle, sensitive partner. When my mother had an attack, it was he who helped her financially and provided the necessary conditions for restoring her health. He loves me, and I love him very much. I'm totally sure of him. You know, we haven't even had a fight yet. Although I am sure that I am not the ideal and the limit of dreams of every man.
So the way to your gentleman's heart is not through your stomach or your bed. You just have to be a little sensitive and understanding. And he, in turn, will do everything in his power to keep you together. I have long since reconsidered my behavior. My appetites have waned, and I no longer hope to become the wife of an oligarch and live on everything ready. I'm completely happy with the role of a woman meeting her husband from work, asking how he's doing. It’s great, and I’m not going to trade this life for any dubious parties and clubs. I'm sorry I realized it so late.
Most often, men-talkers do not differ in practical behavior. Yes, there are those who are ready to discuss anything without stopping for a second. But, as practice shows, they often simply cannot boast of any special feats. But to scandalize or muddy someone behind your back is always welcome. The most disliked type of temperament is that of the male or female.
How a loving man behaves Never in my life considered myself a pye girl. On the contrary, since childhood, I have always been reckless, loved noisy companies, adventures. I even fought a couple of times. And when I grew up, my character did not change, so the rhythm of life also continued to be quite dynamic. I've had boyfriends, men. But with each of them, I was honest and didn’t promise to have a strong relationship unless I wanted to.
But now, at 32, I had to settle down for a couple of reasons. The first is, of course, age. Or rather, there was such a moment in my life that, looking at my current state from the outside, I realized that it is simply impossible to live like this. And so comes the second reason for my change, Boris. My man, my life partner, my strong soul mate, whom I cherish very much and will never betray. I know that for sure.
How did we meet Borea? In fact, we've known each other for a long time. But our relationship started only about a year ago. And not under the best of circumstances. My husband used to be married to one of my best friends. I didn’t see it in any romantic way. I didn't even notice him because Vera, my girlfriend, was very close to me, almost like a sister. So I didn't pay any attention to her husband, and why?
But gradually everything began to change, and the cause of these changes was Faith itself. Although I was in a free relationship with one guy and could afford a lot, Vera was in no way inferior to me and, even as a married girl, could easily go to a party in the middle of the working week. She called it a “rest from the family routine” and believed that such antics only strengthened her marriage. And another important point, at that time he and Borey already had a three-year-old son. How do you like that turn?
No, Vera did not cheat, did not walk with other men. In my opinion, she did not want to let go of her youth. I didn’t want to become an adult and lived as before, only for myself. In general, I was not worried about the situation at her house, my husband earned well and was not against sitting with the child once again. So everything seemed normal? But my views changed after one significant incident.
One day, Vera invited me to visit her. I ordered a lot of things from the delivery, I didn't forget the hot one either. Boris was supposed to arrive from a business trip the next morning. And their son was with his grandparents. So we had a pretty good night, like a bachelorette party. And when I had to leave, Vera insisted that I stay with her. Wake up in the morning, I'll leave, and she'll meet her husband. Well, at least that's what I thought. In fact, everything went according to a completely different scenario.
Boris arrived not so much in the morning, but almost at night, without anything six. And as it turned out, Vera was well informed about it. She didn't meet him, she didn't feed him out of the way. But instead, apparently from a hangover, began to make claims. She accused him of having trouble being alone without her husband, so she had to “beg” me to be with her for a while. Of course, there was no food in the refrigerator. Just some of our leftovers. In general, Boris was sent to the store for food for himself. Out of the way, tired and hungry. He didn't even have time to take off his shoes.
And this incident hurt me so much that I somehow stopped treating my friend with the same respect. I saw how her husband just couldn’t say a word to reproach her and only stood sadly and listened to all the nonsense that Vera poured so fiercely on him. After some time, we accidentally crossed paths with him on the street, I offered to talk, gave him some advice on how to behave in such situations, and we became closer as people. And after some time and a few dates have become really close. And I have no regrets. I don’t feel guilty about their divorce.
I didn’t even tell Boris one of the main secrets in the biography of his ex-wife: the fact that she took $2,000 from him for childbirth, and she gave birth in a free maternity ward. I thought I'd save that information in case Vera changed his mind and Borya wanted to give him back. But I didn't. The only thing that bothers me a little is that he is very attached to his child and pays considerable alimony for his comfortable childhood. Some of which, I'm sure, Vera spends on her own needs.
So far, Borea and I haven't legalized our relationship. We live together and we don't know grief. I see in him a loving man, an interesting person, a breadwinner and a gentle, sensitive partner. When my mother had an attack, it was he who helped her financially and provided the necessary conditions for restoring her health. He loves me, and I love him very much. I'm totally sure of him. You know, we haven't even had a fight yet. Although I am sure that I am not the ideal and the limit of dreams of every man.
So the way to your gentleman's heart is not through your stomach or your bed. You just have to be a little sensitive and understanding. And he, in turn, will do everything in his power to keep you together. I have long since reconsidered my behavior. My appetites have waned, and I no longer hope to become the wife of an oligarch and live on everything ready. I'm completely happy with the role of a woman meeting her husband from work, asking how he's doing. It’s great, and I’m not going to trade this life for any dubious parties and clubs. I'm sorry I realized it so late.
On the phone, the son said that a surprise was waiting for us at the dacha, even then I smelled something wrong.
I follow a strict diet, but I cannot stay without a festive Easter, so I cook according to a special recipe.