Husband promised to bring money for the holiday, but the next day everything changed.

Every wife secretly knows, How much does a husband earn?. For the most part, the number is not cosmic. To have enough for the most necessary, for children, rest. As practice shows, the younger the marriage, the more ambition, but over time, women become more compliant.



However, if a man is not able to pay for basic things, a woman will always be unhappy. In principle, it's nothing special. Everything is logical, because we are social creatures and, of course, we see what neighbors, relatives and friends live. I always want a little bit, but better. Because of this, there are often all kinds of misunderstandings, quarrels and even divorces.

How much should my husband earn? My husband is lazy. I do, though, stay at home with my child while he is at work. I believe, and many women will support me, that maintaining a home is also a job. But the boss does not pay any increase. I am doing my job very well. The child is always dressed, clothed and fed.



Peels will tell you a little about our family. My husband works in a factory with my father. He doesn’t have the lowest salary, even though he earns more. I understand this situation and have nothing against it. Not everyone in life became millionaires. But if you can not make money on the main activity, look for an alternative or at least save on something.

My husband's not used to it. He's the only child in the family. You could say spoiled since childhood. Always a good mood, jokes. He behaves like a best friend and never says a bad word. He treats me very well, and I don’t even remember him raising his voice. That, to be honest, was how he got me.



Peels No! That's different now. We have family. There are needs. You need a sense of growth, of development. I often watch shows where different sociologists talk about it. And I totally agree with them. A man must be a breadwinner, even if he is a little rude. Life is not a fairy tale. And so, it turns out that mom is always angry, and dad, on the contrary, is a friend and is always right. That's how we do things.

My parents visit us often. They bring groceries, even sometimes money, to pay for the apartment. What's interesting is, my mom's standing up for me. My husband does not criticize openly, but in front of me he says that he is wrong. But the father speaks about the son-in-law only in the most tender words. How good and hardworking he is. How he tries and helps the whole community. Can you imagine? Usually the opposite is true.



Peels Mom came in one day. It was daytime, so I was alone. A child in kindergarten, a husband at work. My mom and I talked. She, by the way, brought vegetables from the cottage, for which her husband never thanked her. I complain about her husband, she complains about my father. This is, you can say, a purely female conversation. But it stayed in my head for a long time.

My husband arrived tonight. And since I wasn't in the mood, we didn't have a good conversation. We had dinner, he lay down in his favorite chair, turned on his laptop and watched something in his headphones. That's what he has every night. He's tired. Then I decided to remind you that I need money. Holidays on the nose, you need to go to the market, buy groceries. He told me that they were getting paid tomorrow and that he would give me the money I needed. In the meantime, he wants to rest.

I didn’t ask him why he didn’t have money right now. I spit and went to bed. But I wanted, as my mother advised me, to have a conversation about the fact that other men have hobbies that also bring money. It's the other way around. But it got off my head.



The next day, the husband said that on the way home he had something wrong with the car. Without her, he's without arms. So he decided to go to the station and give it to repair. It turned out that the breakdown is quite serious and worth a lot. So now he doesn't have the right amount, only half. There are other things besides having a big party. But nothing, tomorrow he'll borrow money from my father. So the problem is over.

That was the first time I thought about divorce. For real. Let the child be without a father, I'll find another, no worse. She's young. But I can't stand all this anymore. He has not the slightest desire for development. There is no skill and, most importantly, the desire to earn. Who wants a man like that?



Peels While it's just thoughts, but I'm no longer attracted to my husband. Yes, he is kind and can always support. But I don't need that kind of support. And constant kindness, too. A man should be a man, I think. I'll see if he can pull himself together. But in the future I know that something will have to be decided.