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Mother-in-law was working for 10 years, sent all the money to her son, but she wants to return to our house.
Unfortunately, in our reality, the situation is that house-buyingYou need to save your own house from the very youth. Whether it is an apartment or at least a run-down house - the funds for their purchase will take a huge amount. What to say about construction, when the prices of materials in recent years have increased significantly.
This isn't Africa. Literally. With their climate, you can really live in a hut made of clay and branches and there will be "nothing so, in principle." And if you remember that in the UAE, the state gives young people a cottage, land and 20 thousand dollars as a gift, you can completely lose heart. Let us not look back at others, but live our lives with fearlessness in our eyes. It's gonna be okay.
My wife and I have known each other for about 15 years. Probably more. It started out as a normal friendship, and now I can't live without her voice and a couple of days. It’s true that my travels proved to me that true love does exist.
This is not about me, but about the situation we have. My parents are old-school people. Even at the stage of our candy and bouquet relationship with Julia, my mother demanded from me to introduce her to my beloved. My father also expressed similar thoughts, though not so insistently. But what can you do, that's the character.
In general, after meeting me, my mother started a private conversation with me, during which she promised that she and my father would buy us an apartment after the wedding if I stopped walking and chose this particular girl. For me it was a real and very pleasant surprise, because the last few months I thought about making a favorite offer.
After a modest and quiet wedding, we moved into a new apartment. Nothing special, the area is almost on the outskirts of the city, "secondary", requiring repair. But it was our apartment, and in six months we made a candy. Julia went on maternity leave, so she had no problems with the location of the apartment. We were waiting for our son to come and we were fine.
At the same time, my mother-in-law was not experiencing her best period. Shurin, the younger brother of his wife, concocted some criminal cases, and their apartment had to be sold to pay off. It's dark, so I'd better keep quiet. I can only say that I disliked my brother-in-law at the time. And now I just hate it. My wife will forgive me.
In short, after that incident, the mother-in-law decides to go to Italy to work. And what to do, the apartment is sold, with the remaining money, the brother-in-law lived in some shithole, I did not understand, they bought it or just rented it. It is not possible to earn money here. We have to act.
This poor woman spent ten years working abroad. For ten years she worked tirelessly in a not respectable job. Do not forget to send money home. Look, I'm not saying she's a bad mother, because she's only sent her daughter some coffee and candy all along. I don't blame her.
All the money went into the hands of my brother-in-law, who immediately spent it on some enrichment schemes. A couple of years ago, he bought an apartment in the city center and was so proud of himself, as if he had earned it. He told us he was investing in business (coffee machines or something). But I never saw him do anything. He didn’t even have a license, businessman.
Now here's the thing. Six months ago, my mother-in-law came home. Table, guests, hugs, tears of joy. A tired woman is very happy to see her children and grandson. A week later, she learns that her money almost all went to waste. The son bought the apartment on credit and now “flounders” from part-time work to part-time work. She has nowhere to live.
And this is what my faithful lady came up with. Choose, says, either mom will live with us, or we will allocate money for her to rent an apartment. It matters to me, and I cannot do otherwise.
Again, I have nothing against her mother, it’s a pity that it turned out as it turned out. But why should the decision come at my expense? To live as a foursome in a two-bedroom apartment given to us by my parents is out of the question. Pay... Well, let's say, but in a couple of months, the wife herself will cry first. She knows better how much money is going where.
I want to talk to my brother-in-law. Take your soul away. It's not a boy, trust me. They're 3 years apart from their wife. But a mother's heart is blind. What can I do to make everyone happy, including myself? I have no idea. That's the situation, friends. I advise everyone to think about their future in their youth. When something can be influenced. It'll be very difficult later. Good luck, everyone!
This isn't Africa. Literally. With their climate, you can really live in a hut made of clay and branches and there will be "nothing so, in principle." And if you remember that in the UAE, the state gives young people a cottage, land and 20 thousand dollars as a gift, you can completely lose heart. Let us not look back at others, but live our lives with fearlessness in our eyes. It's gonna be okay.
My wife and I have known each other for about 15 years. Probably more. It started out as a normal friendship, and now I can't live without her voice and a couple of days. It’s true that my travels proved to me that true love does exist.
This is not about me, but about the situation we have. My parents are old-school people. Even at the stage of our candy and bouquet relationship with Julia, my mother demanded from me to introduce her to my beloved. My father also expressed similar thoughts, though not so insistently. But what can you do, that's the character.
In general, after meeting me, my mother started a private conversation with me, during which she promised that she and my father would buy us an apartment after the wedding if I stopped walking and chose this particular girl. For me it was a real and very pleasant surprise, because the last few months I thought about making a favorite offer.
After a modest and quiet wedding, we moved into a new apartment. Nothing special, the area is almost on the outskirts of the city, "secondary", requiring repair. But it was our apartment, and in six months we made a candy. Julia went on maternity leave, so she had no problems with the location of the apartment. We were waiting for our son to come and we were fine.
At the same time, my mother-in-law was not experiencing her best period. Shurin, the younger brother of his wife, concocted some criminal cases, and their apartment had to be sold to pay off. It's dark, so I'd better keep quiet. I can only say that I disliked my brother-in-law at the time. And now I just hate it. My wife will forgive me.
In short, after that incident, the mother-in-law decides to go to Italy to work. And what to do, the apartment is sold, with the remaining money, the brother-in-law lived in some shithole, I did not understand, they bought it or just rented it. It is not possible to earn money here. We have to act.
This poor woman spent ten years working abroad. For ten years she worked tirelessly in a not respectable job. Do not forget to send money home. Look, I'm not saying she's a bad mother, because she's only sent her daughter some coffee and candy all along. I don't blame her.
All the money went into the hands of my brother-in-law, who immediately spent it on some enrichment schemes. A couple of years ago, he bought an apartment in the city center and was so proud of himself, as if he had earned it. He told us he was investing in business (coffee machines or something). But I never saw him do anything. He didn’t even have a license, businessman.
Now here's the thing. Six months ago, my mother-in-law came home. Table, guests, hugs, tears of joy. A tired woman is very happy to see her children and grandson. A week later, she learns that her money almost all went to waste. The son bought the apartment on credit and now “flounders” from part-time work to part-time work. She has nowhere to live.
And this is what my faithful lady came up with. Choose, says, either mom will live with us, or we will allocate money for her to rent an apartment. It matters to me, and I cannot do otherwise.
Again, I have nothing against her mother, it’s a pity that it turned out as it turned out. But why should the decision come at my expense? To live as a foursome in a two-bedroom apartment given to us by my parents is out of the question. Pay... Well, let's say, but in a couple of months, the wife herself will cry first. She knows better how much money is going where.
I want to talk to my brother-in-law. Take your soul away. It's not a boy, trust me. They're 3 years apart from their wife. But a mother's heart is blind. What can I do to make everyone happy, including myself? I have no idea. That's the situation, friends. I advise everyone to think about their future in their youth. When something can be influenced. It'll be very difficult later. Good luck, everyone!
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