Divorced from her husband because of poverty and low wages, thought that I would find a rich man and live with dignity

Lack of money can destroy relationships in any family. And today's edition. "Site" She will share the story of a subscriber who soon discovered that her new husband is almost a... pauperwhich cannot fully provide for it.

As a result, she decided to terminate this marriage, because she did not want to live her whole life, as they say, from salary to salary. I wanted to marry a rich man to live in dignity. But time has put everything in place. And this lady had time to bitterly regret her act. But can she fix it?



I loved Nicholas very much, so without hesitation agreed to marry him. My parents have long discouraged me from taking this step. They said I was in a hurry. They were convinced that he was not a couple for me, that he had no normal housing, no car, or even a good education, Anastasia wrote.



“The first few months of living together made me wonder if I had made a mistake. We did not get out of debt, my husband's salary was barely enough for everything necessary. There was no prospect in sight. He didn't get a promotion at work. Even with my higher education, I had a much better chance of succeeding.”

“There were misunderstandings and quarrels. My husband wanted me to get the first job I got. But it didn’t suit me, because I wasn’t going to spend a penny. Less than a year later, I decided I had enough and filed for divorce.”



“It has been nine years. During that time, I was never able to build the career I dreamed of. There is work, but it does not bring pleasure, and the salary is average. During this time, she failed to get married again. The kids are still gone. In short, total darkness”.



And then recently I came across my first husband in a social network. Apparently, he recently registered, and the recommendations for some of their parameters decided to offer me to add him as a friend. Out of curiosity, I went to his page and stunned.”

“Yes, there were not many pictures. But even those that were available were enough to understand that Nicholas was living a completely new life. In one picture, he is sitting in a cafe in Milan, in another photo already posing against the backdrop of sights in London. Beautifully dressed, well-groomed, happy with life, confident in himself. I could not believe such a transformation.”



“I find no room for myself now. She told her friends and family about it. But they don't understand me. They just nod their heads, they say, everything happens, life is unpredictable. They don’t realize how desolate I feel.

“Maybe we should try to resume this relationship?” Nicholas and I are not strangers, we were together for a long time, loved. I often wonder what I would say to him when I met him. What if I told him I thought the divorce was a mistake? Will we be able to be together again? - Anastasia muses.



Perhaps Anastasia should not try. renewal The man she left 9 years ago. After all, the reason for her “lively love” is ridiculous: Nicholas was able to escape from the shackles of poverty and lived a more prosperous and happy life. And he is unlikely to want to return to his ex-wife, who left him at a difficult time.



What would you advise this woman? Share your thoughts in the comments.