Why you should not be afraid of change

Starting a life together and legalizing your relationship, you need to be ready for constant work on them. After all, heating up passion and keeping love is much more difficult than just leaving at the first difficulty. But there are many marriages in which divorce is the only way to find happiness. However, many women choose to live in suffering rather than become divorced: “How am I going to be?” And the kids? Who needs me now?





But unhealthy relationships that lead to emotional burnout, or even the use of physical force, will not lead to anything good and are unlikely to change for the better. Editorial "Site" 9 arguments in favor of divorce for women who live in the United States mismarriageBut hesitant to leave.

How to Decide to Divorce Your Husband

1. Marriage gives the illusion of stability, and divorce gives new life
   Many women believe that marriage is a guarantee of security and from the point of view of public opinion, everything is fine and stable. But if marriage brings you only suffering and, perhaps, you and your husband even sleep in separate rooms, then divorce is the hope for a new life in which you deserve respect and love.
   
   
   
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2. Divorced happy parents are better for a child than constant scandals
   Children often prevent women from deciding in favor of divorce. But from a psychological point of view, they are better off looking at happy parents separately than at unhealthy relationships that will prevent them from building a happy family in the future.
   
   
   
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3. Divorce gives you a chance to meet a new lover
   To spin an affair, being married, although unhappy, is treason and disrespect for oneself in the first place. But freedom will give an opportunity to build new relationships with a clear conscience.
   
   
   
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4. You can focus on yourself.
   In an unhappy marriage, you're probably the victim. You are haunted by a constant sense of guilt and a desire to please. Therefore, divorce is an opportunity to devote time to yourself, your interests, build a career and live for pleasure. You'll know you deserve better.
   
   
   
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5. It is not scary to be alone, it is much worse to be alone.
   Women are afraid of loneliness. It is so inherent in nature that man needs man. But you can be in a relationship and be alone. After all, your husband is no longer your lover, protector and object of adoration. You don't have anyone to talk to. And being alone, you can walk with friends, go on dates and have a wide circle of communication, feeling necessary and interesting.
   
   
   
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6. Mutual growth
   Family relationships are toxic: you and your husband prevent each other from developing and moving forward. Sometimes divorce is a breath of fresh air and a lot of perspective.
   
   
   
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7. You can channel the energy in the right direction.
   If you did everything in your power to save the relationship, but it did not help, you can safely leave. You don’t have to waste your energy on something that won’t give you a boost. It is better to accumulate it for the care of children and personal growth.
   
   
   
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8. Your children will be happy.
   As mentioned above, constant quarrels and cold relationships in the family will affect children worse than divorce. Divorce will only prove to them that it is important to respect your partner and his choice. In the future, it will be easier for them to get out of a bad relationship.
   
   
   
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9. You deserve to be happy.
   Many women give up on themselves when their husbands do not respect them or even putrefy them. They are so used to the role of an unhappy wife that they do not represent another life for themselves. But every woman, regardless of status, financial status and place of birth, deserves to be happy. Happiness matters to everyone, but it is not synonymous with suffering.
   
   
   
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In order for the universe to give you new opportunities and acquaintances, you need to be able to give up what is dragging you to the bottom. Love is beautiful. But healthy relationships It is when both people are interested in each other’s happiness. Otherwise, you will suffer and burn out. Therefore, if the ship is not saved, it is better to transfer to a small rescue boat.

We also talked about 15 tips for a strong and happy marriage.

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