I was caught up by an agitated stranger and confessed that she loved the husband I had lived with for 30 years.

What to do if kept secret from your wife husband began a new life? After 30 seemingly happy years of marriage, you hardly think about the fact that a loved one can go to another. But as practice shows, no one is immune from sudden love. How to let go of your spouse and start your life with a clean slate, read further in the article.



My husband and I have lived in the soul for almost 30 years. I married Vova when I was just 20. He was a little older than me and lived next door. He followed me for a long time and did everything possible to get me to pay attention to him. At some point I broke down and just went headlong into a relationship.



It was so beautiful that everyone around us was jealous. Friends and acquaintances did not understand how one can feel each other so well and understand each other half-word. Sometimes I thought it was a dream and I would wake up. Together, we walked through fire and water, had children and put them on their feet. I was sure we would grow old together.

But sometimes life makes adjustments. It all happened suddenly. I began to notice that my husband was starting to behave differently. He bought new clothes atypical for him, went to the barber for the first time in his life and changed his hair. I even bought a new perfume! I loved these changes, but I was feeling uncomfortable internally.



My husband recently had an anniversary. To congratulate Vova on his 55th birthday, all relatives came to us. As the husband said his final toast and thanked everyone for being there, he suddenly said, "Dear ones, I want to raise this glass to my second youth!" I feel like I’m younger now than ever, and that’s great!

I liked the fact that Vova literally glows with happiness. But I had no idea what the real reason was. Just a few days after the holiday, an unknown woman approached me on the street. She said she needed to talk to me. She looked like she was 30, no more.



She was very worried and didn’t know where to start. And then the woman cried. Through her tears, she said, “I’m sorry, I didn’t want this to happen.” But you should know that I love your husband. And I'm asking you to let him go. He didn't want to tell you because he was afraid to hurt your feelings. But I can't live as a mistress anymore!

I was taken aback and didn’t know how to respond to this confession. But it was as if I had seen a lot of things in my head fall into place. I had to think about it and figure out what to do next. Ironically, literally the next day, my husband and I should be celebrating our pearl wedding, 30 years together.



We already had a reservation at the restaurant. So I decided to discuss it right there. The cat did not pull the tail, after all, not the children. I asked him what was going on and who the woman was. Turns out it's all true. And Vova has been dating another for six months. And to me he feels, as Vova put it, only spiritual attachment.

It was painful to realize that Vova was lying to me. But I have to admit that my husband started a new life. I think each of us has a right to do that. So I just let him go. I don't know how long this affair will last. What if it's true love? Time will tell.



Anyway, I want to start over, too. I'm going to be the grandmother I've been dreaming of for so long. I am sure that this event will be a breath of fresh air for me!

If the husband started a new life, perhaps he really should just let go? Agree, endless clarification of the relationship still will not lead to anything. They will certainly take a lot of time and effort. So we have great respect for the decision of the main character of the story. She was very wise and thought about herself and her future life.



I wonder, what would you do in the place of this woman, would cause her husband a scandal? Boldly share your thoughts in the comments!