My husband was just singing when my mother-in-law came, I did not immediately realize what she wanted from me.

“My mother-in-law thinks her financial airbag is my concern. But I have nothing to do with it! – complains our reader Alla. She found herself in a difficult situation. Suddenly she lost her husband, and now she finds out about her relationship with his mother, who requires a newly-made widow to share an apartment. How this is possible and how his behavior argues mother-in-law Alla, read further in the article.



The Coronavirus financial airbag took my husband 4 months ago. He was supposed to be 50 this year. But fate ordered otherwise. I was left alone with a 10-year-old daughter and 2 loans that I paid off with my husband. But even that’s not the end of the problems I’ve had.



It happened suddenly. I had no idea that this was possible. My husband was just singing when my mother-in-law came to me. I didn't immediately know what she wanted me to do. Elena Vladimirovna began to ask me about the apartment. I didn't even know what to say to her.



All these years we lived in my husband’s apartment. He got it from his grandmother on his father's side. In other words, as far as I understand, the mother-in-law has nothing to do with her at all. Especially since my daughter and I have nowhere to go. But my mother-in-law doesn't care. She wants us to give her a place. Like, she needs to know that in old age she will have some kind of security guarantee.

Whose side is the truth on? Except I think her financial airbag isn't my concern. I had nothing to do with it! We already had a hard time with her antics. One of the loans that we paid with my husband fell on our shoulders because of Elena Vladimirovna. It turns out she hasn't paid her rent for a long time. To pay off the debt, I had to take money from the bank.



My mother-in-law pulled to the last. And then she came to us in tears. Of course, my husband could not leave her to her fate. Elena Vladimirovna promised that she would save money from retirement to return everything to us to the last penny. But they were just words.

And the second loan was for repairs in our apartment. When we first moved in, I wanted to make the place in which we will live, as comfortable and cozy as possible. And we did it! But everything good costs a lot of money. While my husband and I were both working, we had enough money. But now I just don't know what to do.



My mother-in-law calls me every single day. She even raised her family in the ears, blaming me for everything. I have already consulted with a lawyer, and he said that Elena Vladimirovna really can claim part of the apartment. Moreover, he advised to settle this issue peacefully so that the case does not go to trial.

I tried to talk to her. He offered to pay a certain amount of money for part of the apartment. But Elena Vladimirovna is not enough. This woman has no conscience! The situation made me so angry that now I will stand until the end. If I have to defend every penny in court, I will! First and foremost for the good of my daughter and her future.

You never know for sure how mercantile your relatives may be. To think that Elena Vladimirovna lost her own son. But despite the grief in the family, she began to terrorize her daughter-in-law, who is already not easy. It is hard to imagine what the main character of the story is going through. But we believe the truth is on her side. Agreed?

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I wonder what you'd do in Alla's place. You may have experienced similar problems in real life. How did you manage?