How to test a woman for commerciality, but not look greedy in her eyes

The Mercantility of Women knows no bounds! No offense to men, but women are always much more creative about money and other bonuses. Even the most hopeless cases and questions of the girl can be rebuilt so as to get the maximum benefit. But not everyone is. Women also strive for high, and it is not always money.



Editorial "Site" I am not going to say that mercantilism is a bad thing in our time. Everyone chooses for himself these boundary lines that determine the degree of cynicism in relation to the world around him. However, for some time now these are weapons. What about a man who wants to find a woman who is interested in him as a person and not in his movable and immovable property?

We live in a consumer society, so often when choosing a partner, people rely not on feelings, but on possible prospects. But it's always been that way. rich They tried to increase capital through profitable marriages. From the classics we know what the stories were. But it seems to be more than normal now.



Actually, it makes no sense to understand the nature of mercantility, but how to try to avoid it, we will tell you now. Such a life hack, which may find use, as found in one of our colleagues. In his entourage of women for him was not, decided to look in social networks. However, not everything was as smooth as he thought.

At first, he even came to believe that women are mercantile. However, before making such a judgment, he decided to experiment. In fact, that’s what helped him change his mind. Indeed, he came across ladies with a rather high bar of expectations. And this is despite the fact that, in principle, the colleague is not poor.



He may not have the best income, but he feels pretty good. He's in IT and he's working on another project. After digging into tinders and dating clubs, I realized that the ladies were more focused on his income than on himself. It was expressed in the fact that they immediately demanded gifts and trips to the restaurant. Perhaps it should, but the colleague was upset. Then he started doing it.

Firstly, he did not want to appear greedy, and, secondly, a potential life partner also had to be somehow checked. So he began to alternate dates. He didn't skimp on the first one. cashAnd I don’t put anything into the next one. I've done it several times. This allowed him to more objectively understand what kind of girl he was facing.



GettyImages What does it look like? First, he takes her to a restaurant, gives her flowers, pays for a taxi home. After a few days, the covenant is to walk her, and for several hours they just wander along the embankment, and then part at the bus stop. Then he gets it. pricey At the premiere in the theater and picks up her car (nothing unusual, simple Volkswagen Golf).

Even through a date, they go to the museum with free admission, and he again does not pay for anything: neither for coffee, nor for a taxi, nor for tickets to the neighboring gallery. Actually, majority They stopped meeting after the second date. Two or three held out to the theater, having decided after that, apparently, that both the tickets and the car for this meeting were “fitted” by friends.



But there was one that he was not interested in as a source of stable income. She enjoyed walking with him in the park, going to the museum and buying him coffee at her own expense. And when he bought a ticket resortShe agreed to go but tried to pay her half. In short, it's been a year and a half since they got married and everything is fine.

No one will ever judge you for your choice. Every person is looking for sunshineAs he can. And if one does not believe anyone and tries to just grab a bigger piece, the other, on the contrary, wants to open up and just be happy, despite the possible background. Write in the comments what you think about this and whether such a life hack will work with someone else.



The Mercantility of Women It is not necessarily a fault, situations are different. However, before starting a relationship, its level is still better to check. Read our article about why the husband begins to reproach his wife that she came to live on everything ready. Thank you for staying with us!

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