Dr. Komarovsky: “I am the main defender of grandmothers!” Bashny.Net

Many families shudder when they hear the phrase: “Grandma is coming to us.” After all, she is the military commander-in-chief, encyclopedic reference book, nutritionist, doctor, specialist on any issue! Young parents are sure that a “naughty” grandmother can harm grandchildren.

Much to their disappointment, she does her best to help. The benefits of these services, in most cases, none. Properly build relationships between adults and their parents, will help the simple advice of Dr. Komarovsky.

Do children need a grandmother ?



“The very concept of “grandmother” can well be considered not as a specific person, but as a very significant social phenomenon that requires separate study,” says Evgeny Komarovsky.

Unfortunately, parents who overprotect their children will take care of their grandchildren with even greater force. There is a very clear concept of child ownership, which grandmothers neglect.





To eat more, to dress warmer, not to freeze, not to cry, not to wet your ears. Such baseless and useless advice hundreds, if not more. The most important thing to tell your grandparents is not their child. All responsibility for the life and health of the child lies entirely with his parents.

Conflict can be prevented. Don't be silent, talk together. Only joint efforts will help build the right relationship. Leave the baby to Grandma. It's hard the first time. Trust and agreement with each other will benefit all related parties.





“The priority role in clarifying relationships is simply to play grandmothers, as people are more experienced and, at least theoretically, wiser and more balanced,” Komarovsky writes. Love grows with age. The ability to truly love comes with years.





“I love grandmothers very much, I endlessly appreciate their kindness, hard work, desire to help,” said Yevgeny Olegovich. Experience plays an important role in the education of children. The task of parents is to inform the grandmother that her school of life is past. The responsibility for the child is borne by the parents. Only they have the freedom to choose the ways of education.





Endless traditions, prejudices, and misconceptions are often perceived as correct. Over time, this is not confirmed. Swaddling and feeding by the hour, adult food for babies is long gone. Grandmothers used to consider children weak, defenseless, constantly ill.

But, as a rule, painful are not born, they become. Communication of the child with the grandmother This is not an extra sock or hat! In today’s world, children need love more than food.





The most important rule from Dr. Komarovsky is: “Never, under any circumstances, make any decisions concerning a child’s lifestyle, much less impose these decisions on his parents.” Grandparents, come on! Let mom and dad learn to grow up. This is not inaction on your part, but the key point of parenting.





The perfect grandma stands by and watches as normal mom and dad turn into full-fledged parents. We have many secrets to raising healthy children! Share this valuable information with your friends.