Phrases that will help to end an unpleasant conversation

Sometimes I don’t want to at all. question Or keep talking. Sometimes the reason for this is a bad mood or an unsuitable situation for conversation, but most often the fact that people with their questions violate the boundaries of your personal space. How to respond correctly to a person, so as not to offend, and to end an unpleasant conversation?



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Psychologists advise not to keep negative emotions in order not to end the conversation with a grandiose conflict. It is better to use phrases that will definitely let the interlocutor know that it is not worth continuing. The editorial will tell you about them. "Site".

An unpleasant conversation

1. Thank you, but I didn’t ask for advice.
   Let's say you plant flowers on the street. And then a stranger comes up and begins to teach you that you are holding the shovel wrong or you bought the wrong seeds. Or this situation: someone starts pestering with moralizing about your appearance. In order not to spoil the mood of either yourself or the passer-by, say thank you, and then firmly forbid him to participate in your life. You kind of thanked the man for his attention, but you didn't let him interfere in your business. This phrase also works well with intrusive relatives and colleagues.
   
   
   
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2. “That’s my personal life and not to discuss it with you.”
   “And what is there husband, walked around, they say?”, “Married when?”, “And why not have a child?” – these questions a decent person will not allow himself to ask. Many people want to look behind the curtain. Perhaps the answer is rude, but it will show you that you do not want to discuss your personal life.
   
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3. “We are driven by emotions. Let's talk after a while.
   This is the most important and necessary phrase. When emotions are at their limit and you want to say something you will regret in the future, just reschedule the conversation. Calm down, think, and then talk. This gives you the opportunity to yourself and the interlocutor to pull yourself together and not to say too much.
   
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4. “Can you tell me specifically how I can help? ?
   If a lot of unfounded accusations are poured into your address or a person is just tired of complaining about his life, ask this question. This way you will show that you have heard about all his problems, demonstrate to the person his importance and get the opportunity to start a constructive conversation.
   
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5. I hate this conversation, I suggest you stop it.
   If the interlocutor touches a topic that you do not like, say this phrase. It may not work with relatives, but it does work with other people. Sounds polite and understandable.
   
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6. You are violating my personal space.
   Excessive softness is our main enemy. It is necessary at the beginning of the conversation to indicate and show the person what boundaries can not be violated. But if your interlocutor is too intrusive or begins to insult you, tell him not to violate your personal space. You have to think about yours. psychological healthIt's not about not letting people say all the nasty things.
   
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Not every question, let alone every one, deserves an answer. If something hurts you or makes you feel pain, say it directly. You don't have to prove anything to anyone. An educated person will always understand and change the topic of conversation.

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