Why you can’t clean your husband’s room Bashny.Net

Every housewife wants to bring some order to her house. Someone needs perfect cleanliness, and someone just wants to put everything in its place. But there is one holy place of holies where a woman is ordered to enter, the shelves or the table of the husband. Yeah, you might think it's a mess, but you can't clean it up.



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Why is there such a strict ban? Editorial "Site" will keep you a secret house-cleaning I would like to share a wise woman’s opinion on this.

Sometimes, looking at the table or shelf of the husband, one can only wonder how in such chaos one can find anything. No order, no logic, but here he comes, with a dexterous movement of hands, snatches out of this chaos the thing he needs and withdraws with a victorious appearance.

Of course, not all men do, there are those pedants. They have everything arranged in a certain order, and even signed. You don't have to clean it anyway. There is no special secret here. It’s just that a man has his own special order in which he can find everything he needs.





You think that by removing, you will do better, but you are mistaken. You're going to disrupt the way things are, because you're going to arrange everything the way you like it. Imagine the situation, and it is familiar to almost every woman: you cleaned up, and then he comes home, sees the fruits of your efforts, but instead of gratitude, you get a flurry of discontent.

After all, after a few more days he will walk and complain that now nothing can be found. And after some time everything will return to its former state. In the end, your work was in vain, and even your husband was angry. And who was better off cleaning up?

In this video, Olga Papsueva will express her opinion on this issue. You should listen to this wise woman!

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It's best to leave it as it is. But if this mess is already too infuriating for you, and your husband refuses to clean up, you need to find some compromise. If the usual persuasion does not work, then it is time to start more cunning methods. So what can we do?

1. Lower the demands
   Women are multitasking creatures. She can vacuum with one hand, and the other - to motion sick child. But men can’t, they need a specific task. So you do not need to start a general cleaning and give your husband a thousand and one tasks. Talk to your husband about vacuuming on weekends. This will eventually become a habit. And now you don't fight over trifles.
   
   
   
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2. Rule of three
   Everyone has habits that annoy their partner. If you’re going to make your claims, don’t have too many. Pick the three things that are most annoying and say them. Explain why you don’t like it, eventually you will find a compromise. 327530
   
   
   
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3. More specific tasks
   You can’t just say to a man, clean up here, clean up. What is this order? If he brought you into his garage and said, Put it all down, what would you do? This is a very vague concept of order. Give specific tasks: lift your socks off the floor, wash the dishes.
   
   
   
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Another point I would like to say: make less scenes about cleaning. These are just dirty socks on the floor. It is much more important to maintain harmony in your relationship with your loved one. Be happy!

Everyone can change. Here we recently told the story of Fumio Sasaki, whose apartment for some time was mired in garbage, but he found the strength to clean up and thereby completely changed his life.

Cleaning is not easy, which means you will need some very useful tricks that will make it much easier.

Do you clean your husband's room? Tell me in the comments!