Why You Shouldn't Renew Past Relationships Bashny.Net

There is a saying that you cannot enter the same river twice. But for some reason it is not used in relation to past relationships. They're trying to get something back, fix it, fix it.

Is that possible? What are the statistics of happy repeat relationships? Let's try to figure it out.



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The opinion of a mature woman: “Some circumstances lead to the breakup of a relationship, because no one breaks up. These can be insults, disrespect, betrayal, dissimilar characters, incompatibility in everyday life and a bunch of other reasons.”

“Sometimes people go back to their past relationships, rethinking the old ones, and are willing to really create, to help each other. But in most cases, people do not change and the brain has forgotten about your mental suffering and its causes.”





This is the opinion of a woman who doubts that anything can be fixed. We settle down with time, but rarely change, gain experience and learn from mistakes. Therefore, their repetition is very likely.

The opinion of a mature man: “It is not necessary to return only if both do not want to develop, grow and move on, build a new future, work on themselves and relationships. Otherwise, we can give each other a chance. We cannot go back to the past.”

“Every new day must be something new, a stepping stone to tomorrow. Some people say that people do not change, but I will tell you this: change is possible, but it takes work and patience, and everyone knows it.”



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Both of them come to the conclusion that reviving past relationships is impossible without taking past mistakes into account. Otherwise it will be the same rake. For something to change in a couple, you must first change yourself.

Before you put up with a loved one or ex-partner, everyone should ask themselves what they did wrong before and try not to do it again. And also to reflect on what he did not like about the behavior of the second half and whether he is ready to forgive it. There is no guarantee that it has changed during the separation.





DepositPhotos A young woman's opinion: "I'm back." And then the work started. Titanic. Because everything that caused and causes disagreements, you need to disassemble, chew to the dust and draw conclusions. If partners have a great desire to be together, build the future and develop, it is worth trying. Try hard, long, sincere.”

“Working. Work and try again. Either admit it's easier to give up, or it's not that important for this person to get killed. But the main thing is a strong desire”.



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A young man's opinion: "I have returned to my first youthful love." We got together almost three years ago. Emotionally matured, became more responsible, experienced. Our past problems were not remembered much. I guess it just wasn't the time. You can only give yourself the answer.”



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From these opinions follows another unambiguous conclusion: to begin to build a relationship with a person again, you need a strong desire. It has to be a conscious step.

He who decides to make it takes responsibility for the consequences, and does not hope that everything will suit him by chance and fate.



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You can not just come to a person and hope that everything will settle by itself or all past problems will be solved by a partner. You have to work and work on relationships. This requires the forces that give the motivation to change everything for the better. Motivation creates an inner desire to create love.

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A girl's past relationshipas well boy's pastIt is important to note that these relationships affect us, even if they develop with new people. We need to take this into account and be more tolerant.

Childhood injuries also affect human behavior. To understand the reasons for his actions, one should inquire about the whole history of his life.

On how to prepare for a new relationship and eliminate the most common mistakes, read in our next articles. Follow the links.